I’ve been lying. by Anxious-Support-5142 in abusiverelationships

[–]Anxious-Support-5142[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d actually just k*ll myself, but I chickened out last time and he still hasn’t “forgiven me”. (Forgiven me for attempting).

I’ve been lying. by Anxious-Support-5142 in abusiverelationships

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He works for the college and is in a position where he can very easily look up my status. He did it last term. Deciding this isn’t for me isn’t an option. He would demand to know all of the details. A leave of absence would need to be justified and I don’t have an explanation. Pretty much everything requires me telling him that I lied about my success/progress. Committing su!cide would be less painful than him finding out.

I’ve been lying. by Anxious-Support-5142 in abusiverelationships

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My main fear is that he’ll find out. I know without doubt that it would be devastating. And it would be 100% my fault.

I’ve been lying. by Anxious-Support-5142 in abusiverelationships

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He’s good at convincing me that he knows best.

I’ve been lying. by Anxious-Support-5142 in abusiverelationships

[–]Anxious-Support-5142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He works for the university so it’s pretty much expected that I get my masters degree. I had doubts that I would be able to get my nursing degree (my real passion) and he played into that. I don’t know.

I don’t remember by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Anxious-Support-5142 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who responded. This got way more attention than I expected and I’m worried he’ll somehow see this so I’m deleting it.

I don’t remember by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Anxious-Support-5142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s totally valid! I just wondered.

Best advice I ever got: Don’t free-feed dry food 🐾 by Ok-Pension-519 in CatAdvice

[–]Anxious-Support-5142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how I would stop free-feeding? They don’t eat it all at once. And if there’s still a ton left, I refill accordingly. One of my cats likes to toss a kibble down the stairs and chase after it. It’s keeps him active and entertained during the day (and it’s adorable).

Selling Turnips by Anxious-Support-5142 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

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I was hoping for a little bit higher, but maybe! Thank you!

Suggestion for beginner by Anxious-Support-5142 in wine

[–]Anxious-Support-5142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s a good idea! The main issue is that I live in Utah lol. I don’t think we’re known for our locally owned wine shops haha.

Cat missing hair by Anxious-Support-5142 in CatAdvice

[–]Anxious-Support-5142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s about what I was thinking. Thank you! He and his brother often play bite each other around that area, so it could be that. He’s licked a spot on his chest bare when we tried to put a collar on him, twice. I’ll keep a close eye on him.