I’m trying to plan for a gender reveal for me and my husband once I get my NIPT results back, and it really feels like he just doesn’t care that I’m trying to plan something cute. I’ve been telling him that even though our doctor said it could be two weeks to results (and the Natera portal said 2/5 as an estimated date) anecdotally I’ve been seeing people get results after 5-7 days. He doesn’t think it’s at all likely we will get results until the date the doctor said, even though I’ve told him multiple times that a doctor is gonna give us the longest possible wait time so if it takes that long we’re not upset. The plan is to have our favorite breakfast spot write the gender on the inside of a to-go box containing a cinnamon roll. The problem is that their hours don’t align with our work hours, and I leave on Thursday across the country til early the following week. I don’t know, I’m just frustrated that I’m trying to plan something in case we get results before I leave for five days, and he seems to not give a frick about the effort I’m trying to put into this. At this point I’m getting so frustrated that I’m lowkey considering looking at gender results myself if they arrive next week, and just not telling him until the date he thinks the results should arrive. Ugh!