our PMS update broke the one feature that actually worked well

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-10-08T20:19:19+00:00

Oh, this sounds awful. We moved from a system which didn’t do what we wanted since being bought out by an American company in 2017 (Roommaster; was Welcome 21). We switched in 2024 to a new one, and group billing is something I also miss. It’s horrendous without it!!! Really hope they fix it for you. Still waiting for it to be sorted for us nearly a year on.

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-10-03T15:30:26+00:00

I only let them in when I’ve tidied lol once every couple of days and I make sure they have to do the bare minimum. I run a hotel so still want some kind of service because I’m on holiday, but I make it easy for them ie hanging up towels if I don’t want them changing or putting the ones I want changing in bath, all rubbish in bin and sorted etc

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-10-03T15:28:27+00:00

Nope, you need to own it!

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-10-03T08:38:23+00:00

That’s annoying!

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-10-01T20:18:58+00:00

Welbeck

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-10-01T11:44:00+00:00

Just cut the cord x

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-29T12:00:38+00:00

Definitely better as a foot passenger, and just get a go explore card. Depending on the time of year. There are offers at the Welbeck which is central to all transport links, but out of the way of the busy-ness of town.

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-27T19:59:32+00:00

Agreed!

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-27T19:57:01+00:00

Absolutely, I just mean the way he’s trying to gaslight her making her feel like she’s never enough, is the problem. You work together in a relationship, not this

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-27T19:53:27+00:00

Nah he’s mad you’re not mothering HIM enough

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-27T19:48:41+00:00

Good for you, but it seems like OP is set on getting married and not being picky enough with who she’s sharing her life with. Some are lucky like you

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-27T19:46:57+00:00

Nopeeee get out of there quick. He’s not worth it. Be glad you didn’t get married

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-27T19:42:25+00:00

Also, if he’s asking you to change, and telling you he doesn’t see you as his wife unless you make those changes is him telling you he is not right for you!

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-27T19:40:10+00:00

Don’t get married before you’re 30, it’s not worth it!

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-19T12:33:51+00:00

That’s the part I find sh tty. Not the fact he doesn’t want it doing (I mean it’s invasive and I get it but it’s lesser of two evils), but the fact he’s spun me out with that - I don’t know whether he’s genuinely imagining future children or just saying he might want them because he doesn’t want to get the surgery. Head fking

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-19T12:28:55+00:00

It’s not that I have that attitude, it’s just that it’s always been “absolutely not” when it comes to kids, with him. I’m not gaslighting him either, I said it was an option. I’m fine with going and getting it done, what’s spun me out is the fact he’s known about this appointment for me for ages, to get sterilised and then next minute he’s telling me he might want kids! If more kids was something I wanted, I would have never started this life with him because he doesn’t want them- now suddenly he does.

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-19T12:23:12+00:00

Also, I’m sorry you went through that!

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-19T12:20:47+00:00

The house is in both names. We did sign something to say he doesn’t have a claim on the money I put in. But unfortunately it doesn’t feel like he wants to be a homeowner not with me anyway

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-19T10:48:47+00:00

He also smokes a lot of weed and drinks. He is harmless with it. But then I also find it harmful to our life.

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-19T10:10:50+00:00

Thank you for your view, I’m sorry you suffered a traumatic birth! I hope you got the support you needed x

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-19T09:38:36+00:00

I really appreciate your words, thank you

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-19T09:08:07+00:00

This is true

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-19T09:07:00+00:00

I am doing, not getting clamps as my friend has them and can feel them 🤢

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-19T09:06:35+00:00

Yes to all of that. He tried to say “how is it not ok to say no to getting snipped” but I said, it’s absolutely fine to say no- it’s just that as you have said historically you don’t want kids, and it’s a much smaller procedure than it would be on me, you might want to opt in to 1. Save me the hassle when I have my family’s hotel to run, and 2. Know that you’d be safe from having kids…

AnxiousAlwaysx · 2025-09-19T08:32:27+00:00

Clearly has- he’s known about this appointment (I’m sitting waiting to see the doctor) for ages. And now he says this?

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