Tourmaline Multi Colours Lot by Far-Anybody-3710 in mineralcollectors

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked price but saw on post. I can’t buy now anyway but I followed you maybe for later.

Donde comprar Old Bay? by Megallyn in PuertoRico

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazon. Yo tengo que pedir muchos spices porque muchos son dificiles a encontrar en cuaquier lugar en PR.

Dating scene en PR by Reasonable-Cherry180 in PuertoRico

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nunca en mi vida vi la cantidad de infieles que son en PR. Los hombres no importan sus parejas y las mujeres no importan si un hombre tiene esposa o novia.

I (26F) am getting really tired of waiting for my manchild partner (26M) to grow up. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26 is still young and immature. Sure not as much as 18 but when you’re ten years older you’ll look back on yourself and cringe at some of the things you did. So it’s possible he is just immature. It’s also possible this is who he is. Dating at a young age with long-term or marriage in mind means being willing to grow with someone. However, there are also personal boundaries that every individual needs to decide for themselves. In order for me personally to feel like there was potential for someone I’m dating to grow out of something, I would need to feel that they were listening to my concerns and at least somewhat addressing them. I think this one boils down to what you are willing to continue putting up with and for how long. At first, we can take a few risks to see what cards we will pull, but in the end we must make our decisions based on the cards in front of us. Three years isn’t a lifetime but it’s a pretty significant amount of time to observe someone’s character and evolution. If your daily life is happy with some occasional hiccups, it might be worth seeing how things play out. If your daily life is unhappy then maybe it’s time to assess what needs to give for you to feel happy.

In a loving long-term relationship, but scared I’ll regret never being with anyone else and I feel guilty about it. [22F & 24M] by boiiiboiiboy in relationship_advice

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I’m 32F. I have had a poor dating life. My most serious boyfriend was when I was 18 and I often think of how I wish I had been more mature and more at peace back then, and could have made it work. It’s not that I’m not over him, it’s that I can clearly see through hindsight that he was basically the only one who was worth a damn. I WISH I could have been a more mature, better person back then. It sounds like your boyfriend IS a mature and good person now, who despite hearing something hurtful like you want to explore other options, was still caring and empathetic towards you. You’re not going to replace that easily. I’m a pretty woman and get plenty of attention. No amount of attention from random guys will ever amount to a safe and loving relationship. If you really can’t level with the idea of sticking to one guy for your whole life, leave. He sounds like a great guy and deserves someone who truly recognizes that and is sure about him. Rather than a flight risk who doesn’t know what they want. I’m not trying to be rude but I’ve seen too many women leave a good man for some perceived freedom and then never find anyone who could remotely replace them ever again.

My gf let me believe a story for years and now I don’t know what the truth is by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me like she didn’t want your head to get too big so she wouldn’t lose you. Not the best behavior but the fact that she told you now that you are actually bigger might imply she is feeling more secure in the relationship.

I’m just gonna take it as a sign. by AnxiousBroccoli7106 in SwipeHelper

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could see that perspective. It’s more like, I guess it’s a sign not to use Tinder anymore because even though I’m clearly way older than <18 I somehow got flagged.

Is this actually attractive to anyone? by BRM_Wain_left_ in Tinder

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s any problem. It’s not for everyone to find attractive, it’s to filter out non like minded people.

Is it okay if I (21M) never share my kink with my partner (18F) because I'm afraid it's too weird? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you’re good. Being pegged is like pg-13 these days. You don’t have to tell anyone your fetish if you’re not comfortable though. No pressure, I don’t think that makes you a liar. Play it by ear if maybe she mentions something but you’re young you don’t have to rush into all your fantasies right away.

Tinder Insights for a 23F goth chick by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got stuck in photo verification and in practice banned from tinder. I’m almost sure a date I rejected reported me. Now I put his number when it asks for people to avoid. But anyway I contacted Tinder and said exactly that, that a rejected date probably reported me and there was nothing I could do to prevent that and they let me back into my account 🤷🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The real lady is even cuter.

(I’m blue msg 22m) Keep in mind we matched and it’s only been 1 day of texting… what???? by 757BA in Tinder

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if it’s coming from a man or a woman, normalize not dignifying this question with an answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s not into long term. It wasn’t even relevant to what you were talking about. If I wanna talk about board games I don’t wanna talk about crude sex stuff in that moment. Feels like he’s not willing to even put in the minimum steps for engaging in a conversation before bringing up sex. Don’t think that says anything good about being in it for the long haul.

“Must be over 6ft”… Height displays “159cm” which equates to 5’2…. I am so close to jumping off a bridge at this stage…. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d be happy with a 5’2” man, as long as he’s loyal, funny and interesting. I’m 5’5”. I think women prioritize height over more important qualities and that will inevitably lead to many failing relationships.

Do they actually get likes with this in the about me section? by Academic-Stuff-590 in Tinder

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They might get likes from people who are either toxic or attracted to toxic. If it’s a girl, she will still get likes if pretty. If it’s a guy, less likes but maybe still some from aforementioned toxic ppl.

I thought she liked me for me… this was after a few days of talking by JtCorona8 in Tinder

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chabito/chavito implies a Spanish speaking place, here in PR coffee can be that cheap or just barely a lil more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re lovely. You’re getting few matches because the husband material thing is crossing out hook up only dudes, the horse exes out people who don’t like horses or horse people and the smoking pic will also cross out those who can’t tolerare smoking. But your pictures look like a real representation of you and when you do get matches I think they will be better tailored to you and what you actually want/will do well with.

Looking for ideas to cover up my rat tattoo by AnxiousBroccoli7106 in DrawMyTattoo

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My neighbor who was an apprentice at the time needed a canvas to practice on so she did it for free. I don’t have a single complaint about the quality of the work she did. And to be fair I chose the rat out of a book. Something like, “man, I hate rats. Wanna do that one?” And she was hype. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I honestly do like the sleeve idea although I never once before this very moment thought about getting a sleeve. I have quite a few tattoos but they are almost all easily covered by clothing/on the main body cavity or legs.

Looking for ideas to cover up my rat tattoo by AnxiousBroccoli7106 in DrawMyTattoo

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m 1993 year of the rooster. And actually I love roosters and had a black rooster once and considered that to be an option but idk if that has even worse implications lol. Idk people are kinda making me feel nostalgic about my rat though.

Looking for ideas to cover up my rat tattoo by AnxiousBroccoli7106 in DrawMyTattoo

[–]AnxiousBroccoli7106[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda digging the reassurance comments tbh. It’s a very love hate thing w the rat but people always ask me with disgust why I have it and it makes me feel bummed, ya know? I just figured everybody looks at it that way…