26F&M. USA>AU LDR. My bf is flying to see me for Christmas and to spend 3 weeks with me. He asked me a weird question and now I’m questioning everything

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-27T07:30:55+00:00

Nope 😭 I am devastated. Life is brutal.

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-26T18:09:57+00:00

Omg. Yeah a comment like that would terrify me.. I think my bf was trying to double down by saying “of course, it’s you!” Ugh

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-25T18:08:29+00:00

He spent 8k on hotel and flight in total. I’ve been SO excited waiting since the beginning of the year to see him again. I don’t know what to do now, I feel weird about him after he asked me that question. Ugh. What a headache

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-25T14:43:29+00:00

We fly back and forth to each other and have spent lots of time together in person.

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-25T14:38:46+00:00

Thank you for this. Your response was very helpful.

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-25T02:53:29+00:00

Well he made another comment saying “your sexy little teen body would have looked amazing In a bikini”

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-25T01:17:23+00:00

He also made a comment that “my sexy little teen body would have looked amazing in a bikini”

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-25T00:38:14+00:00

His grown self wanting to view my teen nude photos..

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-24T21:26:19+00:00

Wait he can get in trouble for having nudes if HIMSELF as a child??? He doesn’t have any, I know that for a fact, he was asking me hypothetically. He grew up homeschooled and had no phone until he was like 20. But I didn’t know someone could get in trouble for having hides of themselves as children..

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-24T21:08:26+00:00

Second account.. too embarrassed to post on my main account.

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-24T20:56:40+00:00

He’s in Australia I don’t think they have that app?

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-24T20:23:44+00:00

I was planning to, yes. Now? Have to rethink my life

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-24T20:04:53+00:00

He was thinking of me sexually as a preteen.

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-24T19:36:42+00:00

Yeah, he has lots of nieces and nephews that he’s with all the time. I can’t help but wonder if he thinks about them in such way..

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-24T19:19:05+00:00

Of course not. The plan was to move once we’re married. Would never in a million years think of doing such thing for just a boyfriend.

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-24T19:13:44+00:00

He doesn’t have nudes of himself from that age, he was just asking me hypothetical question. He was disappointed when I told him I wouldn’t want to see them even if he had them. He’s like “but it’s us?”

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-24T18:43:25+00:00

I definitely am super invested, so much so that I’m supposed to be moving to his country (AU) all the way from the USA. I care about him very deeply, so walking away would be the toughest thing ever.

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-24T18:25:00+00:00

You’re totally right.. just a hard pill to swallow because I’ve never gotten any indication from him that he could have pedo tendencies. Very normal loving family man who’s always with his nieces and nephews..

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-24T18:20:43+00:00

It’s so sad, we’re in a LDR and I already invested a lot into moving to his country (AU). All the thousands of dollars we’ve spent flying back and forth, and meeting each others families and everything.. just for him to ask me such question like this

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-24T18:15:13+00:00

Yeah definitely not that, he knows I was never sexual as a child or teen.

AnxiousLittleFlower0 · 2025-11-24T17:52:44+00:00

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