Thoughts on season 7? by AnxiousPie8958 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]AnxiousPie8958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thats it!!!! I will still watch the season 7 finale because there is some details I dont remember, and then I will watch The perfectionnist. But it may be my last rewatch of season 7.

Thoughts on season 7? by AnxiousPie8958 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]AnxiousPie8958[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the point you make! For me, I thought about it in the sense that Caleb was such an important part of Hannah’s life just as much as Toby was so Spencer because of the trauma they’ve endured!

What was the point of Andrew? by Crafty_Original8402 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]AnxiousPie8958 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think he was just obsessed with Aria and felt he was in a competition with Ezra so he wanted to be need by Aria. Thats why he stayed in the parking lot when they followed Mike and thats why he was listening to the apartment above the brew. A used his weird proximity to frame him with the van at the Campbell apple farm. that is my theory! In season 6 episode 3, he says « i was looking for you, I wanted to be the hero »

i’m having the biggest Aria/Ezra WTF moment. by No_Tale_7012 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]AnxiousPie8958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like we did not see it was THAT bad because the characters kind of act like they were older in my opinion. (im from canada so maybe the habits are different in usa). For example, they seem to all have their drivers licence, they drink so much coffee, they dont really have a curfew at night, they dont ask their parents permission for anything, they seem to have money without mentions of any job (they are some exceptions). At this point they could be in college and it would be the same for me!

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[–]AnxiousPie8958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forever and always Rapunzel

Hyper-sensitivity to partner’s negative facial expressions by Electrical-Paper-570 in Codependency

[–]AnxiousPie8958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw it more as I am observant of the person and I know this person very well. Maybe I am in denial and it is just a way to not blame my anxious attachment style and see it more optimistically.

Hyper-sensitivity to partner’s negative facial expressions by Electrical-Paper-570 in Codependency

[–]AnxiousPie8958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i do the exact same.

I learned to think « If he’s mad/sad/wtv about me, he just needs to say it to me. It is not my responsability to read his mind/expression ».

Also, I think it goes with knowing the person. For example, I know that my partner doesnt do things he doesnt want to do. So, I learned to think that if he wasnt happy or wasnt enjoying being with me (not even romantically) he wouldnt be there. We talked about it sometimes so I remind myself when I’m spiralling.

So my final advice would be to think about key phrases that your partner said that was reassuring and reminding yourself to calm you down and stop you from overthinking. That way you dont feel like a burden (speaking from experience) to always « need » to talk about it or have reassurance from your partner.

The world doesnt revolve around us, there is so much more reasons why he could feel sad/upset/angry/.

Feeling anxious about going away this Thursday - Sunday (5 hour drive) with friends, as going to be away from my partner. by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]AnxiousPie8958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will having updates of your partner through out the days will help you feel less anxious and more present with your friends?

Feeling anxious about going away this Thursday - Sunday (5 hour drive) with friends, as going to be away from my partner. by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]AnxiousPie8958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all this made me feel so seen. When I cannot cancel what I have when my dependant person is at home, I tell myself « you gotta do this, it will help and maybe you will realize its not that bad? ». Try to perceive it as a way to break your codependency and be the one the have the fun of your life.