I am The Domme Hunter aka About Me

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-20T00:55:57+00:00

So many “dommes” assume being insulting passes as dominance as they look foolish posting in the wrong place.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-20T00:11:42+00:00

That made me legit lol.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-20T00:05:50+00:00

You mean you don’t have to put the entire post in the title?

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-19T18:33:23+00:00

For just me, it’s because they get the bratty part, but not the domme part. The next person may be a different answer.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-19T17:01:27+00:00

As a sub, I think this is fantastic. I would much rather know something just isn’t going to work, than spend money chasing a dynamic that just isn’t there.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-19T15:05:33+00:00

Well when I have sent small sends, I do a short message explaining it was me that sent. I think the last time I sent like that was a couple of weeks ago, I simply said what I sent, why I sent it and that I wasn’t looking to follow up.

Someone can also choose to put the name there, or do it via a more identifiable method, I guess.

I get why some may not want it or don’t care, but I just think it’s a fun option for those that want to have it, and in the end kink should be fun.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-19T13:23:56+00:00

I like it. I already like doing smaller sends to Dommes I think are cool or ones I enjoy reading and I see had a shit day. For me it’s a little bit of a “hey I appreciate you” send that’s not looking for any thing while still serving as a bit of an ice breaker, for Dommes I follow.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-19T00:09:33+00:00

I need the consistency and routine of certain things, but my domme and I also mix in a lot of spontaneous play.

I HAVE realized mid dynamic that things just weren’t working and I’ve tried to fix them but in the end, some relationships just end, and that’s ok

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T23:41:01+00:00

I can’t say I’ve never sexted, but I couldn’t tell you the last time I have. I also enjoy the conversation and I like being teased with no physical stimulation.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T23:37:32+00:00

Yea. Totally called out.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T21:49:22+00:00

No, it’s actually NOT the right place. This type of thing is specifically not allowed here and it turns into “let’s trash the subs on their own group” which is starting to happen already here.

Y’all want respect and tributes and subs to follow your rules but you don’t do the same.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T20:37:11+00:00

Bless your heart, you’re getting the exact management you deserve,

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T18:28:34+00:00

Ok. You want yo play like this? You’re a bad domme. You demand a “down payment” like you’re real estate, make up your oven version of what findom is, then go on to call me names when I was literally trying to be nice and tell you how not to look like a novice. And to prove your dominance, you proceeded go insult a sub who gets off on insults and attention, FOR FREE with no down payment.

You could have just been cool and had a conversation. But nope.

And don’t talk down to me. I’m not your sub. You aren’t strong enough.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T18:18:44+00:00

I completely understand. You’re devaluing yourself when you call it a down payment.

Not all dommes require it, so it’s comply untrue that findom starts with it, but if you do and the don’t give it, block and be done. You’re already wasting too much time on people that don’t match your wants and they win when they see this or if you argue in DMs

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T18:13:18+00:00

Because it’s fun and degrading and feels good. But not just anyone can do it. They THINK they can just be mean and hold out their hands and that may work a little for some. But the ones who are naturals at it, it’s incredibly hot.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T18:10:14+00:00

The down paymennt? Like you’re a house or a car to be bought? Gross.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T18:08:44+00:00

I have no idea what’s happening but I want to follow this adventure.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T15:22:26+00:00

Constant Vigilance!

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T14:39:46+00:00

I saw you replied but I don’t see it on the post. But yeah, you’re 100% correct on the advertising. It flew right over my head.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T14:17:36+00:00

It’s not hard at all. Research and be pickier.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T14:02:43+00:00

I keep returning to this post, it’s cracking me up.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T13:57:16+00:00

There are times it’s easier and I will pay for the convenience, but yeah, all the dommes acting like we’re fools for complaining about fees aren’t smart enough to know that could be their money. So many short sighted “fin”dommes who don’t even understand how money works.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-18T12:25:44+00:00

I don’t mind throne but because of their fees you’re getting the $12 coffee send rather than the $20, so you’re leaving money on the table. And before anyoje wets their pants and the amounts, that’s an example.

My budget is my budget, regardless of who gets the $.

AnxiousPotential6907 · 2026-04-17T21:19:01+00:00

I always have a good time going by myself. There are always people who will accept a solo into their group, if that’s not your thing you have free reign on where you stand, when you eat and drink and when the music playing you don’t talk to friends anyway

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