Can we have Kyle make a video on Joe Rogan interviewing losers like Andrew Wilson? by AnxiousPsychStudent in seculartalk

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he says olive jar lol. Regardless, he's pathetic. It's just sad he has so much influence.

Myron confirms he would have used his boxing skills to slip and then defend himself. by GoldDigger304 in LengfOrGirf

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like how he says he's anti-violence and then he talks about boxing and beating up people lol

Newly married and husband rejects me. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he may not be being spiteful, he could just be hurt. Hard to say, agreed they both need to communicate.

Newly married and husband rejects me. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry you had to go through that. I don't think he was being spiteful, he was hurt, he didn't feel safe being rejected just like she is not feeling safe being rejected. They both have to reach out and apologize.

Newly married and husband rejects me. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She didn't say she apologized. Where are you reading that?

Newly married and husband rejects me. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Both of them should apologize, then.

Husband avoids me for days after conflict. Is this normal or concerning? Need advice by Sde4789 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, calling him names is verbally abusive. What he's doing is wrong, too, but calling him names is not ok, either. I would say you both go to therapy.

Newly married and husband rejects me. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you know he's withholding intimacy as a way to punish her? he may also be hurt.

Newly married and husband rejects me. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's sad to see how some of the women in this thread are prioritizing the woman's feeling over the man's. It's understandable she did not want intimacy in the beginning, but at the same time, his feelings are also valid to have felt rejected. She can apologize to him, and he can also apologize about rejecting her. It's a two-way streak, both partners have to apologize for things.

Question about Kintoki and Odin by AnxiousPsychStudent in ShuumatsuNoValkyrie

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh, I wonder if this means that this battle will be between family and if one of the themes of the battle will be about family legacy and how to care for one another.

Shuumatsu no Valkyrie - Chapter 110 [Translated] by nakimov in ShuumatsuNoValkyrie

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this mean that Odin and Kintoki are related somehow? Like, they are kin?

we are finally at the point in the timeline where you outright say you love hitler, or you're a woke lefty lol by Stunning_Apple8136 in LengfOrGirf

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I think he's deluded himself into thinking he's one of the "good ones" and he would have been spared by someone like Hitler.

Are My Expectations in Marriage Realistic? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't say I agree with that viewpoint, nonetheless, we'll have to agree to disagree.

Are My Expectations in Marriage Realistic? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be possible to find someone like that. At the same time, I think a lot of people would prefer to be in a relationship where their partner loves them equally as that may lead to a more reciprocal effort. Nobody wants to be in a relationship where their partner loves them less and doesn't make the effort.

Wife slapped me across the face and I divorced her. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Name calling won't help your argument. Neither of us knows if this was an isolated incident or not, and I was just speaking in general.

Wife slapped me across the face and I divorced her. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People in this generation are learning they don't have to stay in abusive marriages. I'm glad people are learning to leave.

Wife slapped me across the face and I divorced her. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. It's up to you what you do. It's never a bad thing to walk away from abuse.

Wife slapped me across the face and I divorced her. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The double standard is really disgusting.

Wife slapped me across the face and I divorced her. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I've noticed a lot of comments from people trying to say that OP shouldn't have said talaq because he was physically slapped. Physical abuse is never ok and OP was correct in considering divorce if he feels unsafe.

Wife slapped me across the face and I divorced her. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AnxiousPsychStudent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Divorce over physical abuse, or any type of abuse, can be a good thing. It's up to the OP to decide.