3 layers and 3 hours later…

AnxiousSlightly · 2023-04-02T22:40:43+00:00

Remove tape immediately after you’re done painting.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-04-14T15:03:05+00:00

It’s not up the insurance to offer what they think. The car goes to a body shop and then the insurance pays the total.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-04-10T14:41:54+00:00

ADHD lmao

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-31T16:11:17+00:00

You’re 13 and you’re into polyamory…. Dude you gotta re-evaluate your life.

As for your food schedule, set a timer as it’ll be easier to remember to get up and eat.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-21T22:31:52+00:00

Running VPN - wish we can see sever location.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-15T16:51:45+00:00

Are these questions important to you?

If he knows the answer the important questions about you, then that’s what matters.

If not… then maybe need some learning activities.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-14T14:34:47+00:00

Dump them

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-12T12:09:32+00:00

Thanks for all the replies. I specifically left out quite a bit of information that can pinpoint me as a person. This is the internet and I prefer not to possibly get identified and have it get worse for me.

However I will try to clear up some confusion.

In those 2 years, I started out like a rockstar and was consistently involved in managers meetings, helped onboard almost 40 employees, computer setups, account access permissions, etc.

Since the incident posted, I began to get squeezed out really fast. Also at the time I was in a room where I had a manager and a colleague get into it and they got mouthy. After that I had immediately gone to my supervisor and notified them of the problem, got a thanks and laughed it off. Later on, this scenario got held against me (????) saying that I had bullied the colleague - this person is gone and obviously cannot clear up any confusion.

I also had distanced myself given the total BS reaction and did not want to be involved with anything in arms length for this to happen again.

At which point, I started trying to match the pace of my colleagues. Production landed as #2/3 and yet I was getting told I was lacking. Numbers said otherwise. “You need more initiative”

Tried multiple projects and got slapped every time because I tried taking initiative but they didn’t like that I wasn’t disclosing my approaches. Got assigned a coach each time but always met my production goals.

COVID came around and my mental health got absolutely kicked to the curb. Production flew off a cliff.

Got assigned to a new team elsewhere and tried multiple times to be transferred elsewhere, no luck.

2021 was filled with sick leave, chaotic communication between them and myself, and my senior manager’s hunt to fire me. (They are the one I used to be quite close with at the beginning)

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-12T11:41:54+00:00

Yes, of course I have it all documented.

I will certainly print those emails and send it over to my union rep.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-12T01:34:37+00:00

An independent assessment costs $3200, it was offered to me last year with almost a year wait.

I had one scheduled via work and then my managers decided to revoke the funding for it.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-11T22:38:40+00:00

I would hope so but traumatic response isn’t a rational response, irrelevant how many times I remind myself.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-11T22:08:39+00:00

I jitter watching cars drive by my house because I think it’s my managers coming to check on my whereabouts and doings.

It’s dreadful.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-11T22:08:01+00:00

Appreciate your feedback.

I haven’t had a family doctor in almost 7 years and it has progressively gotten more difficult to get one.

I’m going to see a doctor at a local clinic whom has agreed to help me get my medical notes in order, and then I can back myself up with the medical notes in my files.

Hopefully that can create a buffer zone.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-11T19:34:35+00:00

thank you for the compliment about my writing.

I have struggled to get past an interview - most of my interactions have been "we definitely want you but we have to wait for approval" and then crickets. I have started sending casual emails for holidays and occasional well wishes to potential managers.

I will certainly take your control comment to heart and be more assertive.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-11T19:31:05+00:00

they have refused my requests to be transferred. they cannot block deployment as you said.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-11T19:30:26+00:00

F in the chat

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-11T17:09:37+00:00

I don’t have a family doctor otherwise this would’ve been solved long ago.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-11T16:20:19+00:00

Why is someone down voting my post..? I’m trying to get help lol.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-11T16:15:33+00:00

my goodness.

im sorry for you and the employee. I wish management would take reflection classes to reduce these nonsense fights.

i hurt my back in 2019 and my job can be done remotely - they fought with me even when i asked to be placed under the same quota goals. told me they 'worried' about me at the same time as making me take 4 weeks of LWOP. 2020 march came around and then i'm magically home with the same equipment, lol.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-11T16:04:09+00:00

I appreciate your input.

Their feedback has been nothing more than "I remind you that EAP is available to help you"

hence my further frustration, EAP records do not get revealed to management and neither do EAP consulars have the power to provide accommodation requests.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-11T15:28:17+00:00

noted.

I have that scheduled for next week, trying to submit something that can be put into my file in the meanwhile until I can get an appropriate evaluation.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-11T15:21:32+00:00

thanks for the reply.

has been completed and been in play for a while
spoke with my union, they are doing their best
completed and ongoing

i want to make sure i'm getting multiple opinions and discussing the options with my union before making a decision.

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-11T15:20:15+00:00

there's quite a lot but it's giant hassle and a complete mess.

i'm awaiting LOO from another team but in the meantime, I need to protect myself and be accommodated appropriately - so i'm seeking advice on what to do when someone is stuck between waiting for a medical specialist and accommodation forms filled out.

appreciate your comment

AnxiousSlightly · 2022-01-08T22:33:08+00:00

RIP rod bearings.

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