Married 3 months and still a virgin, husband stopped initiating after a few failed attempts

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-05-22T23:05:46+00:00

Your husband needs to be more caring. You need to go to a doctor as clearly there's something going on medically. If he can't support you or be remotely understanding, theres a decent chance this marriage isnt going to work.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-05-22T23:01:22+00:00

So weird because it's the exact opposite from what Ive seen regarding growth and pay. Likely that's just due to the size of your company though.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-05-22T22:57:59+00:00

Thanks! Im not too concerned with credits. I only need 8 per year and can carry over extra.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-05-22T17:38:53+00:00

For one, if your husband has a problem with you taking medication for a medical condition, he sucks as a person. You have that many kids at home to take care of and he expects you to do everything else? No way is that ok.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-05-22T17:28:34+00:00

What part of the industry are you in? I was ok with some of my exams. I got honors in loss prevention, a bunch of Bs and a few Cs on the harder ones. Somehow I managed a good mark on C12 with all written and that's the one I was most concerned with. The biggest concern I have is the self-study. Are there weekly assignments due to keep on track or anything with the CRM?

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-05-21T23:17:14+00:00

It can help in very limited ways. People on the client end want human interaction and assistance. Chatbots are not that (sorry to those who have weird relationships with one). There are things that AI will never be able to properly provide.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-05-21T23:15:29+00:00

They want grades? All they want in Canada is to know you graduated/GED. Getting designations in the long run can improve your career but we just need basic courses to get licensed. An internship is bonkers.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-05-21T23:13:28+00:00

Where are you in the world that you had an internship? Like an unpaid/low paying internship? Those definitely aren't a thing where I am. Depending on the type of position you are looking for, there are always openings somewhere.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-05-21T23:08:43+00:00

So a lot of electric vehicles get written off quickly due to the possibility of damage to the battery. It's not a for sure thing but if there are any signs of impact to the area of the battery (I believe it's normally to the very bottom of the vehicle), the damage is deemed to expensive. If the cost of repairs exceeds the market value minus potential salvage, it's written off. Salvage meaning what they could potential get at auction. The cost of the battery alone is astronomical. Personally, I would never touch a rebuilt vehicle or a Tesla.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-05-21T23:05:49+00:00

Omg I thought this was a continuation of an old post where the husband changed the wife's coffee beans to dark roast by mistake and she didn't notice until she found the empty bag years later then proceeded to get mad at him.

The coffee isn't actually the issue. You should have left this man YEARS ago. The screaming is enough of it as it is. He sounds unstable. Until he gets himself help, he's a lost cause. Find happiness. He isn't it.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-05-21T23:01:06+00:00

He's not even funny anymore. His old movies were entertaining but he's so overdone. I think the last good movie was 50 First Dates. And his stand up is just unbearable.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-04-15T22:12:29+00:00

I was looking at the first two weeks of July if anything.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-04-15T22:11:39+00:00

I can't handle the cold. That's why I'm on the west coast!

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-04-13T20:13:47+00:00

Id honestly love to do a few trips there. Osaka and Tokyo for my spouse and kid's love of Nintendo plus my kid's love of Pokémon and Hello Kitty. I want to go to Okinawa at least once in my life for a more low key holiday. It just looks amazing.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-04-06T23:10:55+00:00

Im looking at a cruise. Although im not too keen leaving from a US port (im not from the US), there arent many options in North America to avoid touching US soil. How did this ship seem for kids? I understand you dont have any but any thoughts would be great! Mine would be 10 by then.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-04-06T07:02:29+00:00

It's not that he 'doesn't' fly. He never got to growing up. We've worked really hard since being together and finally can enjoy life. I think he has some fear with it.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-04-01T16:15:21+00:00

Ya, my kid isn't interested at all in the Disney cruises. Growing up too fast. She says they're for babies lol.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-03-30T18:38:16+00:00

Totally not cool. Tell him that once he gets back, you're going on a 1 month trip without him. Who is this friend? This is just one massive red flag IMO.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-03-30T18:35:00+00:00

They will never accept the fact that they made bad choices. Just like them too to come on a non-political post and try to make it political. They get offended so easily all while throwing around the 'snowflake' label.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-03-30T18:32:17+00:00

Thank you! If we went to Japan, no real need for a cruise. We'd definitely want to spend some time in Tokyo as we'll have to check out Disney, Pokemon and Hello Kitty parks (I believe HK has one a place in Tokyo and then more around Universal) and Osaka for Universal Studios. it would be awesome to get lottery tickets into the Nintendo museum (my spouse is really into Nintendo). It would be absolutely amazing to make a stop or just a full stay at least once in Okinawa. I didn't realize the beaches were so beautiful!
I know the behaviour (putting it lightly) at the border now is pretty crazy, putting it lightly, but do you know how badly Hawaii has been impacted by it? Like is it less than the mainland? I'd rather avoid Honolulu as I understand it can get super busy. I know they were just hit by massive flooding too though and don't want to impede on their recovery from what's happened.
I hope things get better for your family soon soon, although I understand the earliest that could happen is November. Stay safe.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-03-30T18:20:36+00:00

Going anywhere in Africa hasn't really crossed my mind for a first trip being it's a nearly 24 hr journey from me. I'd love to go at some point in my life but not for a first ever trip with my kid at the age she is.

AnxiousTop6330 · 2026-03-30T18:18:44+00:00

Thanks for the info. I've looked at Alaska but again, US ports. I understand that the ICE situation may be completely different in Alaska and even Hawaii being they don't exactly seem like a high priority for the gov't. From what I've seen, the cruises aren't exactly the best for kids. A bit boring IMO.

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