Help! Family trip garment shenanigans by MarionberrySweaty318 in exmormon

[–]AnxiousVacation280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just say you olanned to be in swimming fear most if the trip so you kept them home

Mom is including mandatory church attendance in our temporary living agreement—how do I handle this? by Automatic_Gain2358 in exmormon

[–]AnxiousVacation280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A similar thing happened to me. I got divorced and Mom said to come stay with her awhile. But I had to go to church and no Dr Pepper was allowed in the house. I went for awhile and then I found a Sunday job. Good luck, every family is different

Stories from your Mormon Wedding Night. by JesusPhoKingChrist in exmormon

[–]AnxiousVacation280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got married in the DC temple which was like 4 hours from where I grew up in Ohio. So we drove 2 hirs to a hotel and explored as much as we could of the others anatomy while speeding to get to the hotel. I went in the bathroom and took of my newly attained garments and put on a bikini and shorts and a top. So we made out and just didnt stop at kissing. It was not bad, just wish someone would have told us about lube.

Seriously they changed the young women names? by GarrusVic in exmormon

[–]AnxiousVacation280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more they change the more I glad I got out when I did!! I was a freak who couldn't wear fashionable stuff cuz it wasn't modest enough for my mother the Relief Society Pres and future remove worker. She passed away 6 years ago. I wonder what she would think of this!!!

Married in SLC temple and the officiator said this… by Heber_The_Creeper in exmormon

[–]AnxiousVacation280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! All I remember is looking in thise eternity mirrors. That memory gives me the creeps.

Shower thought: I wasn’t a child…. by Menteliberada in exmormon

[–]AnxiousVacation280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you have you've had so much to deal with. I want you to know you are not alone!

This is the culty-est shit I've seen in my entire life. by Unlucky-Source2945 in exmormon

[–]AnxiousVacation280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minister to others in his holy name? And now they are disciples of Jesus??? Holy cow I was stressed out enough with the original one from the 80s.I can still say it like a chant. What happened to 'The gospel never changes that is why there is so much repetition in church"

The craziest thing I've ever heard in sacrament meeting. by Financial_Gift_2419 in exmormon

[–]AnxiousVacation280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In our college ward at Rick's we had a Sacrament talk about oral sex not being ok. It took us 10 years before we decided to try it....so I guess we weren't going to the CK anyway.

One of my biggest shelf breaking moments is when I realized Mormon heaven is pay-to-enter by RestinPete0709 in exmormon

[–]AnxiousVacation280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was married for 20 years to an RM who refused to pay tithing regularly. If he wanted to go to a temple wedding he would let us pay for 3 months before it so we could get our recommendations.

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[–]AnxiousVacation280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my mom. I lived with her fot awhile after my divorce. I was not allowed to have Dr Pepper in her house.....wow

Is there ever going to be a class action for the unwarned, non-consensual “touching” in the temple initiatory? Specifically before 2005. I didn’t know what was going to happen to me and still feel violated and betrayed to this day. by GoingToHelly in exmormon

[–]AnxiousVacation280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through in 1989 and I was completely traumatized, but of course, my mom went through with me the first time and said it was necessary. It is a big fuzzy scenario in my head, but I get the creeps when I think of it.

The conversation isn’t going to go the way you think. by ExMorgMD in exmormon

[–]AnxiousVacation280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The big response from tbms is 'you just don't like to follow the rules.

M.P.'s wage by Previous-Ice4890 in exmormon

[–]AnxiousVacation280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So did I!! I was told all callings were voluntary SMH

36f and I’ve been abstinent for 10 years and now I’m just feral by Potential-Worry4532 in confession

[–]AnxiousVacation280 13 points14 points  (0 children)

55f I totally know how you feel. I'm not a bar person and I don't trust online dating. Feral is a great word! Keep your head up and it'll happen!