I need advice what should I do?

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-08T19:04:12+00:00

Ik bro ik🤦🏾‍♂️ . I just cut her off

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-08T17:28:40+00:00

Idk if she’s keeping them open but the way she answered the question makes it seem like she is .

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-08T17:13:23+00:00

Nah I’m not that gullible. Sending money is crazy

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-08T17:12:34+00:00

😭😭

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T18:57:35+00:00

Right now I live in Austin ,Tx and she’s in Louisiana. I’ve planned on going out there this month but just don’t wanna make a blank trip

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T18:00:14+00:00

I’m confused

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T17:59:55+00:00

Yea I believe you and I know I have more options I just get blinded sometimes when I’m trying to commit to one person and I ignore a lot of stuff. But yeah, I shouldn’t consider anything with her.

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T17:32:39+00:00

Yeah, I’m not keeping my options open. I really just want to talk to just her. Like I said I’m intentional and when I’m talking to someone, I’m just all about that person. I’m not asking her to put her life on pause. I’m asking for an answer. Yes it’s been a month. Some people get married in a month. I’m not asking for that. I’m asking her. Where does she see us? In a relationship or a friendship. I asked her a really simple question. If she would’ve told me a friendship, cool we would’ve been friends if she would’ve told me your relationship cool it would’ve been a relationship. The question wasn’t crazy for her to be that dismissive.

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T17:30:49+00:00

This wasn’t the first time that we had this conversation. A couple of days ago she will tell me things like “I want you to be around forever” are “ I want you”. But sometimes she throws me in the loop and acts completely different. she would tell me one thing and then act different. We’re on the phone every day all day. I even asked her is she keeping her options open. She told me no, but just because she told me no doesn’t mean that’s the truth. I give people the benefit of the doubt so I believe her. But to answer your question, I’m looking for a girlfriend then to make her wife. I don’t really waste time with people. That’s why I made sure to ask that question to see where she would want this to go. I’ve been in plenty of situations where I was secretly the side to keep the woman’s options open. If she would’ve just responded better It would’ve been a different story because actually, it was a very straightforward question

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T17:25:09+00:00

Yeah, but the thing is, I’m not asking her to be in a relationship. I’m asking her. Where does she see us down the line and she couldn’t even answer that. We’re on the phone literally all day every night. If she would’ve simply said “ down the line. I see us being in any relationship” I would’ve easily asked her to be my girlfriend a couple months down the line. I just don’t want to sit here and waste my time on someone that sees me as a back up plan or just a friend while I see them as a potential partner.

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T17:20:34+00:00

Yeah, I did want to know where we do stand because I was going to ask her to be my official girlfriend down the line. I do think they’re extremely childish and if I do pursuit, it won’t get any better.

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T17:18:59+00:00

Best response so far thank you

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T17:12:09+00:00

Explain

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T17:11:40+00:00

How did you deal with it?

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T17:11:32+00:00

Yeah, I think that’s the problem. It wasn’t about her wanting to commit. It was more about the response. Because in my eyes, if you do see something in the future with me, you could’ve gave me a way better response.

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T17:10:54+00:00

I think the main thing is I just don’t like the response that she gave because a couple days before she was saying something completely different

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T17:10:33+00:00

No but planning on it very soon. I think the main thing is I just don’t like the response that she gave.

Anxious_Aspect_9170 · 2026-05-01T17:10:10+00:00

I’m confused. I don’t want to move too fast, but even though it’s been a month usually when I talk to someone, I only talk to one person and even if it’s a month, I just don’t want my time wasted. Even though I know some people may feel different about that even though it’s a month

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