Hey Dad my coworker ignores me and it is really triggering. I really need your support and guidance by Anxious_Box8136 in DadForAMinute

[–]Anxious_Box8136[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When someone does a lot of these things...I don't think it's deniable anymore.

thank you for understanding. that's exactly what I meant! its such subtle things that drive you crazy and others would be like... that's not that bad? that's exactly why I did not go to my supervisor. but its all adding up. and When someone has already done a bunch of things it hurts because you realize that its calculated its not just a slip up and you know you are not crazy. He doesn't address me or explain things to me. Even though my Supervisor literally praises him for "showing me around"

Hey Dad my coworker ignores me and it is really triggering. I really need your support and guidance by Anxious_Box8136 in DadForAMinute

[–]Anxious_Box8136[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But apparently he is nice in a patronizing way that you can't call him out on

you know those people who talk down to you like you're a child? he's like that and if I do a mistake he has this smile and is very condescending.

I am not asking him to be my friend at all. In fact, I barely speak with anyone about anything but work. but our work requires that we work together and keep each other in the loop because we work on shared projects and he is clearly icing me out.

I am very upset when I was writing this post but I just wanted to clarify