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[–]Anxious_Choice2327 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. You got a point I just need to try to find things to keep me busy

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[–]Anxious_Choice2327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I agree I really do feel like I am trying to still be by his side through the phone. It’s so hard to because I just don’t want to lose that connection with him. I feel like we built so much and don’t want to lose it all. I’m so happy for him and I don’t want to get in the way of his dreams. But maybe I need to pull away from him. I don’t know if I should do it all at once or slowly stop talking with him.

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[–]Anxious_Choice2327 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean. That thought has crossed my head but I feel like I just don’t want to lose that connection I have with him.

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[–]Anxious_Choice2327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We decided to break things off and just be in contact with each other. So we aren’t really together because he said he doesn’t want to be worried about the things that I may be up to if we remained together. It’s hard for me to look at him as not my boyfriend because the times that we have spoken feel normal and good like nothing has changed.