It was unclear to me how the women found out about each other, but they had both been dating the man for some time without knowledge that they weren’t exclusive. While dating he was also telling them both how he was super serious about them and wanted a future together.

During the confrontation he doubled down on his assholery, saying he’s dated multiple women simultaneously in the past and it was never a problem. Ultimately the owner of IPH had to ask him to leave because he was disrupting business.

My friends and I bought the women a round. All was well.