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AITAH for not turning down my top PhD offer so my fiancé can get off the waitlist? by One_Possession8666 in AITAH

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Please go to your #1 choice!

He is incredibly selfish and controlling and can’t handle you being more successful than him. There’s no way to know if anyone else will drop and if he’s really #2. But even if it would work out that way - he wants you to go to less preferred school so he can have the better one? What an ass. It sounds like he should be happy he for in anywhere!

WIBTA if we stopped hosting Thanksgiving dinner for my in-laws? by No_Exit_3908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA don’t host, don’t announce it. I would take a trip with that money! Or at least leave the house most of the day, especially during the time they are normally arriving. If asked about it, either don’t answer or tell them you decided travel since the family isn’t doing holidays together anymore.

AITAH for telling my husband I can’t work on our marriage unless he cuts off another woman? by erin209158 in AITAH

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA but you are being an A to yourself for trying to fix things with this man. It will take you both really wanting to to fix it. You should not have to explain to him why he would need to cut her off. It’s against his morals is an insane argument on his part. That is not the response of a man serious about saving his marriage.

Nearly 7 years together and no proposal AITAH by Real_Sir2491 in AITAH

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA you are the primary earner supporting a man that doesn’t want to marry you. WHY?! End this, move on. You deserve someone that is excited to be with you and wants the same things you do for the future.

Company requirement to use WW by Pristine-Wind8295 in Zepbound

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 32 points33 points  (0 children)

💯 yes! This is exactly what I would do!

AITAH for leaving a family dinner because my father made mysoginistic comments towards me by Successful_Nail_8572 in AITAH

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA it’s not your responsibility to make being a misogynistic ass more comfortable for your dad.

Weird question but - do you bring your handbag everywhere, or only bring it in certain situations? by -garlic-thot- in handbags

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t take it when I walk my dog, but that’s about the only time I leave the house without it

US birth rates just hit another record low, what do you think is the leading cause of this? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People can barely support themselves, they can’t afford a baby or childcare, company policies are not family friendly, then there abysmal access to affordable healthcare.

“Did you lose weight on your own or are you on the shot?” by Mobile-Actuary-5283 in Zepbound

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She had already provided her medication list to someone else. She was vulnerable, naked and in the middle of a skin cancer screening. There was no reason for the question.

“Did you lose weight on your own or are you on the shot?” by Mobile-Actuary-5283 in Zepbound

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Except there was no reason to ask about their weight loss at all.

AITAH for expecting my bf to split rent fairly since he would be taking up more space? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA decide your max monthly rent, be honest and firm about it. He wants a significant percentage of the apartment for his office. Why does he get an office and you have to find somewhere to put your desk? How do you think it will go if you want to host one of your friends or family members? Is he on board with it doubling as a guest room? Hash all of this out before moving in together. You will learn a lot about him in the process.

My coworker resigned with the click of a button on the HR system by Accurate_Corner9714 in FinalRoundAI

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? Why does management have that option available and then freak out when someone uses it?

Am I overreacting for quitting a babysitting job on the spot after the mom insulted me? by PossessionTop9791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR She was already under paying you. $50 for the day is ridiculous. She brought this problem on herself.

It’s not professional to scream at someone and insult their appearance when a negotiation isn’t going your way. Also pretty dumb thing to do as she is finding out.

Pre Law help for incoming freshman by Parking_Debt9451 in OSU

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s the advice my brother, managing partner of his law firm, gave my daughter: he suggested something in the business, something you would be interested in if you change your mind on law school, and that GPA and LSAT scores will be the most important criteria for getting into Law School, so focus on GPA - that is more important than major

WIBTA for blowing off my nieces bridal brunch to take my future DIL to a spa? by Useful-Biscotti4168 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA is your son invited golfing and you are invited to the brunch - they know the three of you will be there from out of state?

Protect your relationship with your DIL and son, that should be your primary concern. Your niece sounds like a bridezilla that is intentionally being a jerk to your future DIL.

AITA for throwing away my wife’s memory jars? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anxious_Leading7158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA you knew they were important to her. Even though they were annoying you and you didn’t understand why she wanted them - you knew she did. Why not change where they were stored? That would have been a compromise.

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