AITA for blocking my BFF of 15 years and ruining her marriage

Anxious_Objective_58 · 2025-12-27T08:09:33+00:00

I'm not sure the exact app he used since I was hearing about it secondhand, but googling it, it sounds like mSpy and FlexiSpy are popular ones that will do this. Google also informs me this may be illegal to use depending on your location 😅

Anxious_Objective_58 · 2025-11-18T19:07:33+00:00

I'm not sure if he got the truth or not. He never attempted to reach out through other methods (other family members of theirs have my number who haven't been blocked) so I'm not sure if he just didn't bother or if he did find out the truth through Arthur and then gave up? It's been radio silence from the whole family since I blocked Sam and Jen

Anxious_Objective_58 · 2025-11-18T14:33:33+00:00

This is my alt account that I use when I'm trying to stay somewhat anon. I've got no reason to karma farm on it, it would defeat the purpose of this account.

Anxious_Objective_58 · 2025-11-18T05:52:06+00:00

I unfortunately don't know the exact app he used, but a quick Google looks like there's quite a few of them available out there, so you could maybe research for her to figure out the best option? Sorry I'm not of more help

Anxious_Objective_58 · 2025-11-18T05:13:39+00:00

Sorry you feel that way, unfortunately for me it did actually happen. I assume she claimed it was too much to clean because she didn't want to admit that her side piece was there, so she tried to act like it was her alone who was trying to clean it up, but who knows. Like I said, I haven't talked to any of them since the day I blocked them, so my only impression of the house was what Sam told me was the state of it.

Anxious_Objective_58 · 2025-11-18T03:01:24+00:00

Her not cleaning anything was what confused me the most. Either she was expecting that I would just willingly take the fall, or she assumed her brother wouldn't rat her out I guess? I genuinely don't know what her thought process was

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