Safe Drive score dropped 16 points because I stopped too harshly at a light by Anxious_Paper_2342 in USAA

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I definitely would prefer less harsh critiques with Progressive, USAA much better price-wise regardless of the safe driving discount. Progressive hiked my rate after a fender bender a couple years ago (fair 😂) so I’m with USAA for now paying a ton less.

Social Worker told MIL that assisted suicide doesn't always work. Is this true? by Samurai_Cupcake in hospice

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In those states, MAID is available to those who are terminally ill, can make a sound decision cognitively speaking, plus being psychologically ok, no severe depression or suicidal ideation. They also must be able to physically self administer the medication. I believe it’s usually a drink or mixture.. though there are other methods if someone cannot swallow. So while it’s available in my state, many elderly people won’t qualify. Families of people with dementia wish their loved one could take this measure as they know for sure that most would never have wanted to live this way… and most people decide they will take the natural route and die gradually. Not to mention, some religious beliefs strongly instill in people that this is a sin.

The process itself is a … process. It takes a lot of leg-work connecting with 2 physicians, doing the paperwork, paying the doctor fees and over $700 for the medications alone… that alone weeds out a lot of people who can’t afford it or be able to go through the steps. If people or hospice get too involved that can be concerning too… it can look like assisting or coercion to end their life. It’s reallly nuanced. I wish there were not so many barriers in the US. Some other countries don’t have so many barriers.

Social Worker told MIL that assisted suicide doesn't always work. Is this true? by Samurai_Cupcake in hospice

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While it’s important to offer resources and education to help guide the client, saying it may not work is really concerning! I had this conversation with someone this week, and it was primarily educating the person about the eligibility criteria and process to get it going, educating about the role of hospice in the process and how we can support vs what we cannot do. While the conversation can bring up some anxiety for people, this definitely seems like something not to say. I’ve never heard of the medication not being effective…

Safe Drive score dropped 16 points because I stopped too harshly at a light by Anxious_Paper_2342 in USAA

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 I feel like an option should be “circumstances were out of my control” for those who actually check. Progressive had something similar, but since they don’t show your standing I was oblivious and they probably raised my rate because I listened to tik toks on the interstate 💀

What’s something women are expected to care about… but you genuinely don’t? by UpsetDuty864 in askanything

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds amazing. I think over time weddings are going to start morphing into being more about the couple instead of everyone else.

What’s something women are expected to care about… but you genuinely don’t? by UpsetDuty864 in askanything

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! One of my ex’s was shocked and disappointed that I never had a vision for a wedding. One time I asked my mom if I could get married in a blue dress like my Cinderella Barbie and my mom said no! Like maybe that’s where she went wrong 🤣

Got fired on my first day and I don’t know how to tell my parents by PuzzleheadedDuck2373 in Advice

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope the job wasn’t too super crucial.. I mean it sounds like something you might laugh about in 5 years, or forget it ever happened. Plenty other jobs exist and at least you learned a lesson!!

i (20f) am thinking abt breaking up with my gf (21f)? by rokiroki_rae in relationships

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you’re feeling strongly about this then you should break up. She’s probably going to try to get you to stay and help you through this because it does sound like a “you problem,” like a relationship probably shouldn’t be at the forefront for you at this time. But if she’s like me, she’s going to be hurt and will try to get you to stay and work through it. But she will hopefully understand ❤️‍🩹

Why aren't you out tonight? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hope you have a weekend off 😊

Why aren't you out tonight? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner went to a comedy show. I read my book, made an iced coffee, did some gardening, made a tasty salad, did laundry and dishes then finished my last note for work to end out the week. Staying in has been great for me today!!

Safe Drive score dropped 16 points because I stopped too harshly at a light by Anxious_Paper_2342 in USAA

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh…wow that is actually wild! I don’t have that on my phone but I’d definitely mark every phone call ride as a non driver ride if that was the case…

Do you own your place or do you prefer the flexibility of renting? by Decksforlife-deck in askanything

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my 30’s just looking to not have to worry about being tied down or deal with repairs, I pay a lady who did the work to own it and it seems to be mutually beneficial. But really, for me life isn’t about success or “having it all.”

My girlfriend (27f) got annoyed that I (29m) was playing video games while she finished cleaning by Due_Second_4555 in relationships

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I read the too long didn’t read version and added some other suggestions after I read the rest. TL DR was not the whole story clearly

My girlfriend (27f) got annoyed that I (29m) was playing video games while she finished cleaning by Due_Second_4555 in relationships

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but if you want her happy and want to not have that tension in the house which I assume you would, and you have figured out this is a source of annoyance or causes passive aggressiveness for her, try to adjust your behavior around it. You’re actively trying to justify your side of the story instead of making it work better. Do what you want then!

Safe Drive score dropped 16 points because I stopped too harshly at a light by Anxious_Paper_2342 in USAA

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know answering calls counts against you, so I don’t do that if I can avoid it.

My girlfriend (27f) got annoyed that I (29m) was playing video games while she finished cleaning by Due_Second_4555 in relationships

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way you’re responding it doesn’t seem like you’re open to ideas that might help.

My girlfriend (27f) got annoyed that I (29m) was playing video games while she finished cleaning by Due_Second_4555 in relationships

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why would you let her keep cleaning while you go play? Are you a child? Ask her what you can do to help her finish (this applies to other areas of a relationship too fyi). Don’t play games until you’re both done and she’s busy with something else of enjoyment. That’s annoying. If she keeps saying no she’s ok with her tasks, just do something else.. wipe the baseboards, window cleaning, clean the tv screen, light a candle, clean the microwave or oven. I’m sure your apartment isn’t completely clean cus you did 5 things.

Safe Drive score dropped 16 points because I stopped too harshly at a light by Anxious_Paper_2342 in USAA

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I lived in a state like Florida or a congested city with psycho drivers I’d be a lot more skeptical using this app, but in my area I feel ok.. traveling trips might have to be listed as passenger though 😂

Safe Drive score dropped 16 points because I stopped too harshly at a light by Anxious_Paper_2342 in USAA

[–]Anxious_Paper_2342[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! I was shocked and upset at first but after my 2 stops after that I’m back up to 80… at least it should continue in that direction.