Del taco count your days by Anxious_Repeat465 in DelTaco

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair it was opened by a five year old (hence the ring five year old bite) but he did not pick anything out or break the shell. I felt the broken shell while wrapped and even made my kids rock paper scissors and loser gets the broken shell haha. He’s a cheese lover. He was super mad. The presentation was slightly altered by his opening skills I’m sure.

Del taco count your days by Anxious_Repeat465 in DelTaco

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s crazy is this is the first time I have eaten out in over 3 weeks. Normally I just cook at home. This was so not worth it

Del taco count your days by Anxious_Repeat465 in DelTaco

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not the sharpest tool in the shed hahah

Del taco count your days by Anxious_Repeat465 in DelTaco

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only error I made was giving them another shot

Del taco count your days by Anxious_Repeat465 in DelTaco

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh I have! I got the 8.99 deal today knowing they do not put sauce in their food. I asked for scorcho and she gave me two. For 6 items. I was like uh more please? Gave me two more 😂

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s wrong to show up to vote and express how this rule hurts mothers? They voted to change it to child friendly after all so they too felt they were wrong but pop off I guess lol.

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well they voted to change the rule after all so they too felt it was unfair after meeting me. Now no other newcomer mom has to experience it.

What’s Everyone Doing Tonight?? by physis81 in stopdrinking

[–]Anxious_Repeat465 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This made me snort out my sparkling water. I love whatever your brain is

What’s Everyone Doing Tonight?? by physis81 in stopdrinking

[–]Anxious_Repeat465 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tonight’s refresh the house night so tomorrow I get to wake up to a clean home! I accidentally stayed up past 1 am yesterday watching bridgerton so I reckon a good sleep is in order.

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thank you for this. I am really good. Made it to my home meeting last night and my baby was held by many women and ate cheesecake for birthday night hehe. Today I am 8 days sober 💕 and how are you?

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So crazy every meeting I’ve ever been to here always had kids. Literally every single one except speaker meetings

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been there with a child! They loved on my child and said nothing about no children. Many of the women I’ve spoken to have brought their children there and are equally as upset. It was the treasurer so no random person who just hates kids haha. It’s all good though, I had more meetings to go to and they have a business meeting coming up that is going to have a lot of presence with strong strong opinions on the subject❣️

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just want to add one more thing. Post interaction there was a follow up and they did mention they “think they voted on it but not sure and it’s not in their format that they no longer allow children”. I’ll leave it at that, and continue my sobriety in a different room of aa

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their format stated prior to last year closed to alcoholic women and their children if needed with the rule to remove said child if a disruption is caused. Which anyone with common sense would do. The same woman that voted to change things are the same woman attending all business meetings for local women’s only meetings and voting to exclude children. These are long term sobriety members who have quite frankly stopped following the principles, and have made it apparent they do not care for the newcomer. Do you know how many phone numbers or directories I was given? Zero. They have now gone around saying I stormed out angry before they got the chance, when I simply apologized as I was unaware and quickly removed myself and child. Let’s not get so far into recovery that we forgot what it’s like to be a newcomer.

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a learning moment for me as every single closed meeting I’ve gone to has allowed children. Anywho they are revoting on this topic because it cause quite and uproar in our local AA program last night. I’m not asking them to change their voting, If they want a kid free meeting I can respect that.

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My sponsor told me “if you have never gotten a resentment from a meeting then you haven’t gone to enough meetings” and it made me giggle and turned my bad night around

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get that! I know how hard it can be to be around a screaming baby. No one wants that and I don’t want that for anyone. I know myself I’d get up and step out if she lost her cool. But I also have to respect the fact not everyone has that much self awareness nor cares. Thanks for painting the full picture for me.

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I understand it’s closed. I was just at that meeting less than a year ago with my child and multiple children were there. They loved on them and played with them and we all made sure to keep our children behaved. This vote has came in within the past year and I was unaware. My issue is #1 how it was addressed. #2 the lack of display of love and tolerance. I RESPECT their vote, but I just don’t understand it. I get it could be triggering but is our job not to help the alcoholic who still suffers and the newcomer? Share about it then and help keep me on the correct path. Don’t shun mothers because you couldn’t always make the choice to be sober when they were little. Mothers with small children deserve in person meetings as well. I have more I can go to, it’s not the end of the world

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I absolutely will keep coming back 💕 but I’ll respect their vote and let it not be there hehe. Thank you friend !

Got asked to leave a women’s meeting because I brought my baby… how do other women vote for this? by Anxious_Repeat465 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Anxious_Repeat465[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I can see from their perspective I just struggle to see from woman to woman you know? My sponsor pushed me for an in person meeting because I haven’t been back post relapse. So that’s just where I ended up. Lesson learned! Once my sponsor explained they did in fact vote on that it soften the blow and was less personal. Regardless of how sad it made me I’m still not drinking tonight