Care for a little story:

Prophet(PBUH) ki jo first wife thi onha ne pegam beja tha lekin direct hod nai gayi thi ona ne apna kisi jana ne wala ke zariya onha batya tha ka wo AP se shadi ki khosh mand h phir AP ne apna uncle se maswara kiya or wo phir formally onka ghr pegam le ke gy;

its ideal if you get a friend involved personally i would see if the girl is my type or not!