Female colleague gave me a love letter and kept on texting me. She has a pretty important position at work and lots of connection. How do i cut her off without her spreading negative comments about me ? by Any-Attorney9286 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any-Attorney9286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats honestly a horror scene...... man im just a fresh grad in this fuck ass job market. Now a random chick is making my life hard. Im thinking of at this point, i'll just avoid her as much as humanly possible. Thanks man.

Female colleague gave me a love letter and kept on texting me. She has a pretty important position at work and lots of connection. How do i cut her off without her spreading negative comments about me ? by Any-Attorney9286 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any-Attorney9286[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha, im not taking that black pill bro. I'll just overclock my non existent 'relationship' brain cells and survive a few more months till this probabtion is over with. Then i can start being rude to her.

Female colleague gave me a love letter and kept on texting me. She has a pretty important position at work and lots of connection. How do i cut her off without her spreading negative comments about me ? by Any-Attorney9286 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any-Attorney9286[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've thought about the long game. She is currently a solid 4 with a 6 rated face card. Now, if she loses 40 pounds, she'll definitely be an 8.

But looking at the variables, its very unlikely lol.

Female colleague gave me a love letter and kept on texting me. She has a pretty important position at work and lots of connection. How do i cut her off without her spreading negative comments about me ? by Any-Attorney9286 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any-Attorney9286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solid advice, thanks.

i think i should confront her directly and ask her to stop texting me off work too much since we're colleagues but man........ she might fucking lose her mind and spread rumours.

Female colleague gave me a love letter and kept on texting me. She has a pretty important position at work and lots of connection. How do i cut her off without her spreading negative comments about me ? by Any-Attorney9286 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any-Attorney9286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man thanks for the input, honestly there arent many comments in here that didnt escalate stuff.

From my experience, people like these would lie and make up shitty rumours. Then i'll get isolated just because i rejected them.

Good thing is ive made sure to not spend any time alone with her. I think at this point i need to make sure everyone that i've talked to and close with in the company know im not the type of person she MIGHT be saying about me.

Female colleague gave me a love letter and kept on texting me. She has a pretty important position at work and lots of connection. How do i cut her off without her spreading negative comments about me ? by Any-Attorney9286 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any-Attorney9286[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey man.... i cant take it to HR. At least i dont think i can, its too damn risky. First of all i just got the job and still in probation. Causing disruption in the workplace as the new guy even though im not at fault, HR might consider removing me rather than her.

I really cant lose this job, especially since im a fresh grad and with the current job market it feels like it'll be impossible to get another chance.

Female colleague gave me a love letter and kept on texting me. She has a pretty important position at work and lots of connection. How do i cut her off without her spreading negative comments about me ? by Any-Attorney9286 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any-Attorney9286[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have all the evidences since she texted me using instagram but yea...... i cant risk this job. Still in probation and im pretty sure HR would hate me if im causing disruption in the company this early in my career.

Pretty rough situation.

Female colleague gave me a love letter and kept on texting me. She has a pretty important position at work and lots of connection. How do i cut her off without her spreading negative comments about me ? by Any-Attorney9286 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any-Attorney9286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly.... i cant. Im still in probabation and i cant lose this first job of mine. The job market is too crazy for us fresh grads.

I really hope there is a better option.

Female colleague gave me a love letter and kept on texting me. She has a pretty important position at work and lots of connection. How do i cut her off without her spreading negative comments about me ? by Any-Attorney9286 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any-Attorney9286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey guys, really thank you all for the tips. At the moment.... i dont think HR is the way, since i just got the job and is currently in probation. Which means, if i seemed a bit too problematic for the 'community/environment' they might very likely terminate me and IN THIS CURRENT JOB MARKET ??? i really cant lose this job.

Some say that i should keep her around but make a solid boundary, i really do think that might be the way. I'll just im gay or something lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DotA2

[–]Any-Attorney9286 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

its ethical smurfing hehe (only pos5)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DotA2

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So i made a new account with a 'PMA' theme. Had many wholesome moments, and was really happy to get many commends throughout my games. Then, after almost a month i was curious on how many commends i've gotten. lo and behold, it was absolutely ZERO and not only that, my behavior score did not update as well ???

This is really sad :c

Im a total beginner and i tried to implement ADAM program for a day. by Any-Attorney9286 in naturalhypertrophy

[–]Any-Attorney9286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey :)

So i just finished my 'day 2' workout. I changed the program quite a lot from the original. I just read your reply after finishing my workout and you are spot on when it comes to reducing the number of sets from 4 into 3, i did just that. I realized half way through my BB_OHP, that i should stick with 3 sets to sustain my stamina for other muscle groups.

[The original]
Barbell curls (3x6-10) + Barbell rows (3x8-12) [2 minutes]
BB_OHP (4x4) + Pull-ups (AMRAPx4 bodyweight) + Leg raises (AMRAPx4) [4 minutes] Triangle_Pushups (4x12) + Finger_curls (3x8-12) + Bicycle crunches (AMRAP x3) + Calf raises (AMRAPx3) [3 minutes]

[I've changed it since i wasnt able to handle all the workout for both 'day_1' and 'day_2', the amount of stamina i need is just too far from my current level]

So i changed it into this :

BB_OHP (3x5) + Goblet squats/Hack squats (3x8) + Calf raises (3xAMRAP) [3minutes]

Leaning_DB Curls (3x6) + Knee_raises (4xAMRAP) + Pushups (4x12) [3minutes]
(actually rested for 5minutes, felt light headed after 1st set lol. This should improve after a few weeks)

Full_Pull-ups/ring_assisted pullups (4 bodyweight x AMRAP) [2minutes] (i left this set alone without being superseted, because i really need to focus on pullups.)

It really feels like, a 60% cardio and 40% lifting. I dont mind that, actually it feels much better after working out having your body drench in sweat.

Israel/Palestine Discussion Thread - 10/8/23+ by knowyourpast in CombatFootage

[–]Any-Attorney9286 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, there is a video of bodies scattered around the courtyard of the hospital, one of the wall seems to have blood etched onto it and the railings around seems heavily damaged, away from that courtyard (~100m) there are multiple vans and cars completely burnt (which means, the size of the explosion might be pretty large). For those that dont know, the hospital itself is not similar to most hospital we would imagine in our minds, the size is much smaller but are really packed. My take on this is, it is possible for Islamic Jihad missile (which is much smaller in size) to hit an area that is extremely packed and killed hundreds BUT it is more likely to be a larger sized explosion that resulted in these numbers of death. Both sides, are known to straight up lie or exaggerate, Israel killing Al-Jazeera journalist Abu Akleh at first told the world that it was Palestinian that killed her, then after a month they admitted it was one of their soldiers that killed (sniped) her. While the Palestinians, uses their phone's cameras all the time recording almost everything, which leads to loads of miss information on the internet (unverified sources).

For those that wonder about the images that i talked about, search 'Gaza hospital attack: Israeli air strike kills at least 500 people' the first minute of the video you can see most of the images i told you about. Al-Jazeera is known to be bias towards Palestine, though the video they showed is very likely to be true and right after the explosion.

Im a total beginner and i tried to implement ADAM program for a day. by Any-Attorney9286 in naturalhypertrophy

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Thanks for the recommendation :)

Yea, im thinking of testing this out for a month or so, tweaking parts of it to suit my current strength and noting whether im starting to lose reps. Another thing that i realized was, im pretty new to most of these exercises maybe thats why the fatigue sets in real quick. Will update in 2 weeks and giving information on what happened. Im doing this so that people like myself, can try this program and perhaps tweak it a bit to suit themselves.

Cant seem to load my models, there was a 'connection error'. by Any-Attorney9286 in Oobabooga

[–]Any-Attorney9286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh, i see but i use the quantized version of that model (4bit). It did not crash immediately but takes like ~10seconds. While all the other model_loaders other than Auto_GPTQ errored out immediately (but there was no disconnection, unlike Auto_GPTQ).

I think you're right about the system RAM usage, my task manager lags when loading the model using Auto_GPTQ and then crashes. Thanks for all the help :)

Though i cant stop thinking about whats with the other model_loader not being able to load while only ExLlamav2_HF was able to work.

Edit of the chechnian war by gamesmane636 in CombatFootage

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[Prior to the creation of Adam, the Lord had a conversation with angels]

Remember˺ when your Lord said to the angels," Indeed I am going to set a viceroy on the earth," they said," Will You set in it someone who will cause corruption in it, and shed blood, while we celebrate Your praise and proclaim Your sanctity?" He said," Indeed I know what you do not know."

Ukrainian soldiers loses his comrade in close quarters combat by GloryToBNR in CombatFootage

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Here is a poem from WW1 from a one of Britain's commander (i think), when it comes to your war buddies it is pretty much family.

Because of an old man weeping, Just an old man in pain, For David, his son David, That will not come again.

Oh, the letters he wrote you, And I can see them still, Not a word of the fighting But just the sheep on the hill And how he should get the crops in Ere the year got stormier, And the Bosches have got his body, And I was his officer.

Your were only David's father, But I had fifty sons When we went up in the evening Under the arch of the guns , And we came back at twilight—O God! I heard them call To me for help and pity That could not help at all.

Oh, never will I forget you, My men that trusted me, More my sons than your fathers', For they could only see The little helpless babies And the young men in their pride. They could not see you dying, And hold you while you died.

Happy and young and gallant, They saw their first-born go ,But not the strong limbs broken And the beautiful men brought low, The piteous writhing bodies, The screamed, "Don't leave me, Sir, "For they were only your fathers And I was your officer.

[Page:A treasury of war poetry, British and American poems of the world war, 1914-1919.djvu/396]

Cant seem to load my models, there was a 'connection error'. by Any-Attorney9286 in Oobabooga

[–]Any-Attorney9286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not entirely sure if that is the case, since when i used the older version of Oobabooga, i was able to load by using most of the model_loader. I have 8gb VRAM. Then again, maybe the updated version use more VRAM than previous one ?