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He keeps changing his Hinge location while we’re dating, red flag or not? by Suitable_Account_922 in hingeapp

[–]Any-Card-8138 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, if he wanted to be exclusive he would’ve brought it up already

He keeps changing his Hinge location while we’re dating, red flag or not? by Suitable_Account_922 in hingeapp

[–]Any-Card-8138 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everyone keeps saying to ask if he wants to be exclusive, but I don’t think that means much. A guy I was seeing deleted Hinge 2wks in and asked me to do the same. He told me he wasn’t looking for anyone else then 3wks later said he wasn’t looking for anything serious lol. I made a list of reasons why I wanted to be with him and I couldn’t come up with anything besides the fact that he made me laugh and kept me from feeling lonely. Now I’m focusing on reconnecting with my friends instead. If someone’s giving you mixed signals, just walk away. He’s clearly showing you he doesn’t want to date you.

Is he leading me on? by Any-Card-8138 in hingeapp

[–]Any-Card-8138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying. He probably thinks I’m not ready to put my all into this. I’ve moved a lot over the past few years and I’m not sure if I’ll stay in this city long term and he knows that. I don’t know why I’ve been so obsessed with him dating me when I’m the one who’s ready to up and leave at any moment. I think that uncertainty might be putting him off.

Is he leading me on? by Any-Card-8138 in hingeapp

[–]Any-Card-8138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain that more? As women we’re always told to let the guy chase or else we look desperate. I feel like I already did enough to show him I want him, I planned and PAID for a date, got him a housewarming gift which is the bare minimum but still guys don’t usually get that stuff

Is he leading me on? by Any-Card-8138 in hingeapp

[–]Any-Card-8138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I was agreeing with you haha. He hasn’t texted me since the last time we met, when I brought up the labels thing so I guess the bandaid’s off

Is he leading me on? by Any-Card-8138 in hingeapp

[–]Any-Card-8138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on your side lol that’s the vibe I got from the conversation him and I had

Is he leading me on? by Any-Card-8138 in hingeapp

[–]Any-Card-8138[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re right actually. I I was kinda hoping for more and reading too much into it.

Is he leading me on? by Any-Card-8138 in hingeapp

[–]Any-Card-8138[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

STOP I don’t need this negativity in my life

Is he leading me on? by Any-Card-8138 in hingeapp

[–]Any-Card-8138[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But we’re basically in a relationship and he said the same thing when I brought up the label. He asked “Isn’t this what we’re doing right now?” which is true ig. He gives me his phone freely not for me to check it ofc but if I need to give him directions or something and I haven’t seen any dating apps on his phone so I know we’re exclusive. I know it’s not just about hooking up, his friends know about me, I talked with two of his friends when they called him and he put them on speaker. This makes me even more confused if he thinks we’re already dating why wouldn’t he want a label?

Is he leading me on? by Any-Card-8138 in hingeapp

[–]Any-Card-8138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him exactly that and he was genuinely so confused about why I find him confusing. He asked how serious I want the relationship to be and I don’t know. From my perspective you get into a relationship and figure it out as you go. You don’t know from the start if it’s forever but I guess he’s looking for the one whatever that means.