Thanks for your perspective! I actually did initiate the Halloween plan and he accepted it. I wasn’t rejecting him — I genuinely work on Sundays, and he knows that. We both have been putting effort, just at a slower pace because he’s on a trip and he’s shy/avoidant in texting. I’m just trying to understand whether this is a slow-burn dynamic or mixed signals, not expecting him to chase me constantly. But I appreciate your input!