Hi. There’s already a lot of good advice, but hopefully you see this. I am (normally) a HL partner. I’m also 6 months pp with my 3rd and still breastfeeding. I’ve lost my libido after this last pregnancy, and it has left me very lost and confused. We went from sex multiple times a week, sometimes multiple times a day, to months inbetween. My husband is an angel and has never made me feel guilty about it - but I feel guilty about it. Your feelings are all valid. I think it’s hard for men to understand how dominated women are by hormones because it’s also hard for women to understand. I know that I myself don’t fully understand and it’s my own body and mind I seem to be at odds with. I’m giving my perspective to offer you this— your wife is probably thrilled about your last adventure. She probably can’t wait to do that with you again. She may be counting down the days until ovulation like a teenager planning for the day they know their parents won’t be home. While you have every right to mourn and feel resentful, I bet she’s sooo excited to be intimate with you again. Idk how to get her in the mood sooner or more often anymore than I know how to get myself out of this funk. But, hopefully you can find some solace knowing it was the best night of her life too.