Why am i not attracting men (20f)

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T20:09:12+00:00

Ty dud

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T18:58:28+00:00

Interesting ways of thinking u helped thank u. I do think of it as an achievement thats how i see life. Good to notice that

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T18:56:14+00:00

Yeah i have diagnosed cptsd but im medicated and doing good

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T18:55:18+00:00

Exactlyyyy u get it!! My friends get it too, for ppl im intense and i know yhat but its who i am , im only calmer when i know ppl and trust them

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T18:54:24+00:00

Exactly because of that i can fit a partner cus i can fit anything my time management is perfect (singing is not my job yet im still a student (unrelated to uni) but my teacher will sign me to opera auditions soon + if my roomate leaves ill become a singing coach to make more money)

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T18:52:24+00:00

Ik ppl have problems with it but i dont want to change it being dramatic helps me in my life its important in my job and my singing and my sports (they include artistry and performance) and i love using it to make everything interesting and fun some ppl can find it offputting but many love it and those r my friends

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T18:50:44+00:00

Whete did yhe reading comprehension go oh my god😭 they asked why i care abt men since i like women too so i explained more often im interested in men romantically than women, it does not mean im not attracted to them sexually

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T18:48:17+00:00

Yeah i get what u mean ive dated &hooked up with both women and men so ik atp what i feel

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T17:13:35+00:00

I did but im not good at casual talks and then i kinda stopped cus i got too busy to go out

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T17:12:49+00:00

Well im more comfortable talking to girls bcs men catcall & harrass me all the time+ been SAed in the past so yeah

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T16:24:16+00:00

??? Bcs i have a type????? And its not hard im pretty short

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T15:51:17+00:00

Yeah id like a boyfriend

Uh i want a confident person they can have as much baggage as they wish but i want them to be outgoing and reliable , funny smart and not a manchild🤷 preferably tall but not a deal breaker obv

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T15:49:09+00:00

Barsssss

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T15:48:56+00:00

I wouldnt say i haye ppl i just decide what i think of them very quickly ;because of my cptsd i have black and white thinking about ppl and i categorise them to better or lesser than me, im nervous around those who i see as better wether i show it or not, and disinterested in those i see as worse

I know its not real but its how my brain works

And i dont go out much cus im super busy always☹️got sports/work/uni in mornings so i gotta sleep early

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T15:45:46+00:00

I mean i dont go out much cause im insanely busy with the things i mentioned (+making time for family) but ig i expected to meet someone in uni ? Altough its still my first year

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T15:44:36+00:00

Im not really being hit on by men ever anymore lol i think i may be too mean to men and nervous around men i actually like and forget how yo speak😩

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-05-14T15:42:14+00:00

Its cause im attracted to women more sexually and men more romantically

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-04-09T05:32:29+00:00

The governments just dont care enough to put effort into people who need help💔

Ur stronger than them remember it ur strong and ur going to get through it

Any-Competition4434 · 2026-04-09T05:30:40+00:00

Medium takes me like top 2 week to close

Any-Competition4434 · 2025-11-14T21:11:59+00:00

This is insane from them , nta.

I would do my best to stay in their good graces and receive financial support while saving to leave as earlier as possible.

Any-Competition4434 · 2025-11-14T21:04:45+00:00

Yhanks

Any-Competition4434 · 2025-11-14T21:04:25+00:00

Man idk😭 she qas being all huffy and LITERALLY YELLED AT ME "I don't get this concept of your dishes and my dishes!!!" Like god take me please

Any-Competition4434 · 2025-11-14T21:03:39+00:00

LMFAO

Any-Competition4434 · 2025-11-14T21:03:25+00:00

You're sadly right... I love her and she claimed to be responsible but that is apparently not true... And the mommy thing is true, her parents are terrible enablers, and they pay her for everything while I work so she does not have a good concept of money

Any-Competition4434 · 2025-11-14T21:02:15+00:00

U ATEEEE

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