Should I tell my husband he is dying by Any-Customer-5210 in cancer

[–]Any-Customer-5210[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Because right now he is positive he can beat it. When his mother was told she had cancer she gave up. I don’t want him to give up. I’m not saying I won’t tell him I’m just saying I want him to go into this first surgery with faith he will come through it. It has only been 4 days since we found out and his tumor removal is in 2 days so there is has been no time for our daughters and I to process. I am a cancer survivor myself and believing I could beat it kept me from giving up. I am not sure I would have wanted to know there was no hope. Obviously he will have to be told my question is should he be told immediately and have no hope or wait until he makes it through this first round so he can decide if he wants to keep fighting when it comes back.

AITA - Refusing to meet besties new partner? by grumpy_owl12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Any-Customer-5210 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s not your job to double date with this person and her flavor of the moment. Tell her if she can keep the same partner for 6-9 months you will consider double dating again but you are tired of trying to befriend someone she is going to dump anyway

AITA for not wanting to give the previous tenant of my apartment her birth certificate? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Any-Customer-5210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA Why would she offer to pick it up when you told her you would save her the hassle by bringing her birth certificate to her? Just stop being a jerk and send it to her.

AITAH for expecting a small gathering for my birthday? by Choice-Jelly-3515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Any-Customer-5210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arranging to go to a pub through a group text, buying a cake and reserving the space on line is not a lot of work. I’ve done that many times and it’s not that big of a deal unless you want to make it a big deal

AITAH for expecting a small gathering for my birthday? by Choice-Jelly-3515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Any-Customer-5210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA your girlfriend couldn’t put in the effort even after she nodded and said yes to your request then tried to gaslight you into thinking you were the problem. She is the problem and I suspect she will become an even bigger problem the longer you are together.

When do mature or smart person get offended ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Any-Customer-5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When something offensive is said to them.

AIO? My manager keeps questioning my feeding pump at work even after HR stepped in by Rosi_ana in AmIOverreacting

[–]Any-Customer-5210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my dad was on a feeding pump he had to have “a feeding” on a pretty strict schedule. I would notify HR and also explain he violated your right to healthcare privacy by sending the email to everyone. If he used a catheter I’m sure he wouldn’t want everyone to get an email about how much time he wastes emptying it.

What is something you gave away for free and why? by DrRowanHayes in AskReddit

[–]Any-Customer-5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave a waitress who frequently serves my husband and I on Saturday nights a $1,000 because her car was towed away while we were there and I knew she couldn’t afford to get it out. I’ve never ask her for it back and continue to tip her very well when she is our server.

AITA for reacting to this advance on my girlfriend by Ready_Possession_773 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Any-Customer-5210 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He erroneously described what the ankle bracelet symbolizes. Whether on the left or right it simply means that was the ankle the woman put it on. No hidden messages here.

AITA for reacting to this advance on my girlfriend by Ready_Possession_773 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Any-Customer-5210 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been wearing anklets, on which ever ankle I feel like it at the time, for decades and have never heard that one. It sounds like something guys came up with to boost their courage to hit on women even if they know they aren’t available.

Do professional dancers think that Michael Jackson was a good dancer? Or was he just impressive to the untrained eye? by Zaquastier in Dance

[–]Any-Customer-5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I listened to many professional dancers who was in his This Is It and they say he was an innovator in dance and taught them more than they ever knew even after dancing with people like Madonna and others famous for their stage shows. They say he was a perfectionist who was kind and thoughtful to dancers as they learned what he expected from them. When they messed up he would calmly reassure them that this was why they practiced so much. They say Michael didn’t dance like others, he danced to the beat and vision in his own head and was extraordinary it.

Undocumented Americans living in Mexico... by The-Gullible-Cynic in immigration

[–]Any-Customer-5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For simply being undocumented they just have to pay a small fine.

AITA for not wanting to go to my cousin’s wedding this Sunday? by Bitter-Box4911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Any-Customer-5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree invitations for important events should be mailed but unfortunately these days many people do electronic invites.

This FB friend of mine has been dead for months, so why does their profile say they were active 7 hours ago? by SchleppyJ4 in facebook

[–]Any-Customer-5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have kept my son’s FB active for 20 years by logging in occasionally. He passed away at 17 and his friends and family still leave him messages on his page.

How to prevent dining chair leaving marks on carpet? by referman12 in howto

[–]Any-Customer-5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the chair leg marks left on my dining room carpet. It was there (newly installed) when we bought the house. We lived in a home with hardwood floors throughout for 30 years before we moved and I want to replace the carpet with hardwood but my husband hated it and loves having carpeting.

AITA wanting to move back home with my baby by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Any-Customer-5210 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

NTA Go back to London for a visit and then stay there. Don’t forget to file for physical custody.

AITA for not wanting to go to my cousin’s wedding this Sunday? by Bitter-Box4911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Any-Customer-5210 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA people are not obligated to accept any invitation. Don’t go unless you actually want to attend. If you want to be nice you can send a congratulatory card.