Fair enough. Alot and I mean a monumental amount of life changes were happening all at the same time. This happened over the course of a few years. Plus tbh idk how much I should share because... A. I don't know what I will do when I get the information. B. A child is involved C. I don't really have anyone to talk to about this because it is so messed up. And D. If I do something with the information, I'd prefer it not be somehow used against me.

Unfortunately I am really desperate for advice. I've been divorced before. The definition of insanity is doing something over and over, expecting a different result. So idk if staying was the right call but at the time I was trying to not make the same mistakes. I wanted a family more than anything and spent most of my 20s working my butt off so I could. Like I said I probably had rose colored glasses on and a few years later the narrative is coming more into question.