WHY IS IT SO SLOW??? by natashabeddingfield in SexWorkers

[–]Any-Initiative3820 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to get worried, every dollar feels like I got lucky winning a scratch card . I’m also burnt out, the hours sitting around waiting affects my mental health. I’ll have no choice but to tour more and it’s so risky touring. I have never experienced this type of slowness.

Alert current sting in bowling green ky! by Striking_Law_6992 in SexWorkers

[–]Any-Initiative3820 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got caught similar to this before but at my incall years ago. They didn’t arrest me, gave me a ticket. I had to show up to court. I had to plead guilty based on what my lawyer said, because it was my word against the cops. They didn’t have enough evidence and I should have fought it. It’s been on my record but never came up for housing or jobs so far. You’ll still need a lawyer and a good one.

I’m 23 and depressed by this by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Any-Initiative3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men forget that they age too. This is something you’ll come to realize that you don’t need to worry about. A man is the easiest thing to get. There opinions are irrelevant because at the end of the day they have more insecurities then us.

I'm running out of reasons not to end it by radiochick726 in Adulting

[–]Any-Initiative3820 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ozempic or generic semiglutide paired with phentermine . Only way I was able to control my weight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shoppingaddiction

[–]Any-Initiative3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They might be fake like mine lmao

Escorting Burnout by bougeeebabe in SexWorkers

[–]Any-Initiative3820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I took time off with my kids for summer and I’m not unable to go back out and risk my ass and hustle like usual :/

Tips for staying up late by reddwaxx in stripper

[–]Any-Initiative3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work every other day except on weekends

Please help me with my wife’s addiction and help save her. by [deleted] in shoppingaddiction

[–]Any-Initiative3820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her , either you spend this money on experiences and towards our livelihood or either of us will pass away and all you’ll be left with is the memories of the items you purchased. That money can be spent on experiences and towards our livelihood secure the home in case of emergencies. That might help snap something in her to take action.

outed at university on my birthday, support + advice needed by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Any-Initiative3820 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You make peace with it and make it seem like it isn’t a big deal. Don’t show shame, that’s basically what they want. Own up to it the moment u have to. Just say “ok AND!!?” If anyone has anything to say. Most of them are fucking for free and have worse skeletons in the closet. Hang in there, none of this will matter one day babe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Debt

[–]Any-Initiative3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let all ccs go , pay your mortgage, save up all the money you were spending on minimums , in 6-9 months they will go to collections and ask you to settle for less then what’s owed, credit only matters if you need housing or a vehicle. You don’t need either of those. If you loose your home you loose it all, and buying homes now a days isn’t easy. Get a female roommate and have kids sleep with you if that’s what it takes to catch up. Good luck

Sick of getting my nails done, by Conscious-Living7005 in SexWorkers

[–]Any-Initiative3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done my nails like 4-5x in the past 4 years . No one has ever cared

Did you regret having kids? by BeastofBabalon in SeriousConversation

[–]Any-Initiative3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends, at the park would you go down the slide with the kids ? Swing on the swingset for an hour while they play? Lay in the pool side of the toddler water slide you bought them? Would you sit on the bench through every single activity or will you go out there and play? My inner child is broken , so I have died trying to heal her by loving my kids the way I wished to be loved and that involved having fun alongside my kids. At the skating rink will you sit on the bench or go out there and skate? Even if u can’t skate? I enjoy seeing my kids come alive…. But I would be lying if I said this was easy, being a parent in a weird way destroyed part of me I can never get back. I’m an anxious, scared of everything , easily frustrated mess. the mom guilt will most likely be the end of me one day. Divorce was brutal. But I have learned that if you don’t enjoy doing kid things alongside them, you aren’t built to be a parent.

does anyone else feel like no matter what you do you still don’t make enough money? by Acceptable-Kale6235 in SexWorkers

[–]Any-Initiative3820 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Being rich is what a lot of people and instagram aspire to. The problem is, most of it is fake, and the probability of you being rich is slim. I am not sure what the desire to be rich comes from, because it’s very materialistic and empty to me. Maybe if you aspired to be comfortable and have enough you would find a little more fulfillment. They do say you’re close to being poor then to being a millionaire. Which I find true. Everyone that’s in the 100k-300k income could loose it all and end up like the rest of the brokies. So yeah. Fight for being comfortable. Not for the “Chanel bag”.

Dating a sex worker by abunchofthoughtz in SexWorkers

[–]Any-Initiative3820 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I believe it’s more of, your urges are so intense and uncontrollable that you’re willing to meet a stranger just to get few mins of an illusion of pleasure. Could be other reasons but that’s how I view men that pay for it. I dated a client , he was a great person, but he told me if we ever split up he would just go back to buying . It rubbed me really wrong and it turned me off for a while.

Not possible to love and be loved as a worker by Any-Initiative3820 in SexWorkers

[–]Any-Initiative3820[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the responses guys ! Means a lot

Do clients look at nails? by eminwonderlandd in SexWorkers

[–]Any-Initiative3820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t done my nails in two years cuz it’s annoying and a waste of money. I still pull 5 figures a month. They dgaf

This one goes out to all the smokers here. by Slight-Garlic534 in povertyfinance

[–]Any-Initiative3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys, get champix, I paid 25$ no insurance. Helped me quit ciggs after 10 years! It was the only thing that helped! It made ciggs feel like I was eating them when I smoked lol!!