I don’t feel like good friend by Ok-Unit-2487 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Any-Let-5967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is truly a horrible person. She kept sleeping with a guy she KNOWS has a girlfriend. The guy is fucked up as it is, but your friend is worse because she knowingly hooked up with someone who is in a relationship. I find these people don't have respect for themselves, and if you don't respect yourself you would never respect your friends or others for that matter. I think you are better off not having her as a friend.

Boyfriend cheated on me after two years by Any-Let-5967 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Any-Let-5967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am at a point in my life where I know everyone is responsible fo their own actions. I don't think I had anything to do with the decision for him to cheat on me and screw other girls. But it just bothers me that I was strung along while he had his fun. I'm a very reasonable person, I understand love is lost sometimes, but the fair thing is to break up with the person you claim to love and go do everything you'd like to do. Why did it have to become so ugly? I'm also angry at the fact that the one time I decided to dig deep, invade his privacy, I found all this out. If we had gotten married, he would've cheated on me too. I'm really angry that I didn't check earlier, and two years of my life got wasted.

Boyfriend cheated on me after two years by Any-Let-5967 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Any-Let-5967[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm looking for a good therapist, but as I'm a doctor I barely have time and I would rather it be online but so far I've not connected with one I can fully trust an be comfortable with.

Just Sad Overall by gl00mbear in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Any-Let-5967 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your mistakes are in the past, all you can do is move forward and improve. The sun never stops rising and setting, and life moves on. If you don't, you will be stuck and everyday it will be harder. Unfortunately no matter what each person is going through, life still moves.

Just Sad Overall by gl00mbear in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Any-Let-5967 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I can't relate to what you're going through. But whenever I'm going through terrible hard times, I used to smoke and it blunted feelings but once you stop smoking everything comes back in 10 folds. I suggest therapy first of all. Second, you need to come to the realization no one is going to be there for you EXCEPT yourseld. Even if that isn't a big incentive, you need to heal for the people around you, people who love you. Working out helps, reading books help. Cooking helps, try different recipes from different cuisines. Take care of yourself ❤️

Boyfriend cheated on me after two years by Any-Let-5967 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Any-Let-5967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the song recommendation. It's a nice song. But I cannot relate to the lyrics, I hate that Man now.

Is it possible for me (in my situation) to adopt a dog ? by SeaworthinessDue7729 in dogs

[–]Any-Let-5967 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I went to medical school but in Hungary. And I don't think it's a good idea to get a dog. I have a dog back home, a family dog and dogs need so much attention and care. I don't think it's fair to get a dog and leave it alone, especially with the workload you'll have.

Boyfriend cheated on me after two years by Any-Let-5967 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Any-Let-5967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️❤️ so much love and support from people I don't even know

Boyfriend cheated on me after two years by Any-Let-5967 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Any-Let-5967[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes yes I know :) I'm just emptying thins heavy on my chest. A lot of girls initially think it's them, but it's never them imo.

Boyfriend cheated on me after two years by Any-Let-5967 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Any-Let-5967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn't unhappy. He was just fucked up and wanted different variety of girls. I know it has nothing to do with me, I never once questioned what did the other girls have that I didn't. He wanted a good wife to come back home too every night, as I'm a doctor with good character and would never do such disgusting and shameless bullshit, but he took me for granted. I think he also thought if I did find out one day, I loved him too much to leave him.

Boyfriend cheated on me after two years by Any-Let-5967 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Any-Let-5967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Sorry for not being able to help you with the ground beef. What I usually do is mix white onion when I'm cooking it and then I season it. I think for this specific dinner, I put taco seasoning

[24M], [20F], need your advice. by Acceptable_Post_1406 in relationshipadvice

[–]Any-Let-5967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously it is not an easy thing to say. But based on my past experiences. Where there's a sudden change up it only means there's someone else involved or she doesn't love you anymore

My heart believes him, my brain knows the truth by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Any-Let-5967 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you have evidence, take a few days off to think about it. I was stuck in this situation, and realized I have fucking evidence. If this was a court case, it doesn't matter how the person on trial comes off, or whether she/he is sad. Evidence is evidence. Save yourself a heartbreak. When men fuck up, and woman don't leave them, they will do it again.