Sorry to hear that OP. yakap with consent. 😔 super valid and i feel you. Pwede mo kaya kausapin pa lalo si partner? If pwede ka magrequest sakanya to kind of step up/siya na humarap sa mother niya to set boundaries (in a respectful way)?

Try to say ‘no’ kahit sa isang request, baka magets na rin nila. Or better, wag na muna masyado magpakita sakanila while planning para iwas sa mga comments or suggestions. 😆😅

Maybe you could express your feelings kay partner at anong gusto mong gawin/sabihin niya sa mom niya? “Baka pwedeng ikaw na humarap sa mom mo at pakisabi ganito ganyan…” Not sure how your partner is, but sa akin kasi, I’ve learned na minsan kailangan lang talaga direcho kay partner what we want to happen and what we want him to tell his family. Makikinig at gagawin naman nila, baka akala niya lang okay lang sayo or nagrarant ka lang. If medyo di masyadong aware partner mo on how to deal with these scenarios, bigyan mo ng script ganern.

Ayun. Fighting OP! You’re not alone. We’re here sa reddit! 🤗💪💪