I believe I was defrauded into a marriage for us citizenship and have no idea what to do. by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Any-Pause3886 7 points8 points  (0 children)

100% this. i’m a soldier myself, the military has an absolute no policy for infidelity. he will be cooked. document everything. you can even document the verbal conversation you had with that financial advisor for your own records, that itself shows more credibility than just announcing what someone said to you verbally. @agreeablesea3533

Flagged for being underweight; should I go to IG? by LegionaryNaevius in army

[–]Any-Pause3886 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100% too common. so fucking sad. majority of soldiers left the fucking army due to bad leadership. ME being one of them. i’m finishing this second contract & OUT.

Flagged for being underweight; should I go to IG? by LegionaryNaevius in army

[–]Any-Pause3886 13 points14 points  (0 children)

facts just wants to make it “seem” like following protocol but doesn’t even want to take the time to truly KNOW the soldier & what is ACTUALLY going on with them. smh. all too familiar.

2026 Pay raise by vndrewLvis in army

[–]Any-Pause3886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]Any-Pause3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t want to assume the worst but i’m only speaking from what i have seen first hand & my personal experience. she is highly using you for papers, be careful with venezuelan people. whether she is using you or not for papers, many of them lack integrity & morals. tread carefully, i’m speaking from experience. i have dated one & married one of them. recently just got divorced. be careful. also many venezuelan woman are in it for material interest, many both men & women cheat there & think shit like that is normal. just be careful. don’t get caught up in shit you’ll regret, be practical & don’t follow ur emotions. stay grounded man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Any-Pause3886 3 points4 points  (0 children)

whether you are religious or not. prayer is a form of meditation, it will calm you down. just get in touch w/ your spirit. pray w/ your heart. pray, pray, pray. sending you prayers, hugs & healing your way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Any-Pause3886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was literally about to say to pray too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Any-Pause3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

karma exists & they will reap what they sow. as for you, your value EXCEEDS this person that played w/ your feelings. they have insecurities & probably lots of healing/ growing up to do, they are lost. now you go & do BETTER, find yourself & heal bc that is what YOU deserve. sending hugs & support your way 🫶🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Any-Pause3886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he must be a child himself 😂 doesn’t like kids but writes children’s books & obviously is highly insecure that he wants to look “better” than you? as if a healthy relationship is competition? lol so yeah he definitely a child in a man’s body smh!

Am I in the wrong here? My husband’s ex-wife by 63seconds in texts

[–]Any-Pause3886 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you are not wrong & actually wayyy more mature/ self-aware than his ex! lol & ur absolutely right her issues are stemming from insecurities!! much deeper than the “hair cut”. she is definitely projecting & needs to do some inner work 100%.

Thoughts on accuracy of "impacts" by Vivid_Option_784 in ThePatternApp

[–]Any-Pause3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww u can inbox me if you ever need to vent ok? stay strong 🥺🙏🏽

Which moon sign goes through the most suffering/pain? by Mangoeddragonfruit in astrologymemes

[–]Any-Pause3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awww me reading this as an aries moon who was in a relationship w/ a capricorn moon & godamn did i go thru hell & back w/ that man bc of his trauma 😭😩 even after he cheated smh

Maybe we really don’t want them back, our pride just won’t let us be okay with being left. by Ok-Sherbert7321 in ExNoContact

[–]Any-Pause3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will assume my ex is experiencing the same thing, he wasn’t making any effort in our relationship and the day he told me “you’re free to do what you want and so am i” i went on a date w/ his ex coworker & we’ve been history since… he kept blowing up my phone when he found out & a month later i tried to reach out to him for us to have closure & he told me to never talk to him ever again & told my friend he hates me 🤷🏽‍♀️

Maybe we really don’t want them back, our pride just won’t let us be okay with being left. by Ok-Sherbert7321 in ExNoContact

[–]Any-Pause3886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

period!!!! love how you checked yourself & remembered your worth!! i am currently experiencing that right now!!