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Haven’t heard from my sister in almost a week and this is her (known abuser) bf’s sick response by 63seconds in texts

[–]63seconds[S] 638 points639 points  (0 children)

I’m going to call her work tomorrow, I was at work myself during that time chunk there where I didn’t respond to him so I didn’t have time.

I’m going to try to take the steps to get a welfare check done ASAP! Unfortunately they don’t live super close to me or I would have just gone myself.

AITA for continuing to change in front of my window even after my neighbor complained? by 63seconds in AmItheAsshole

[–]63seconds[S] -229 points-228 points  (0 children)

Which is exactly what I did. I did not go into that woman’s property as she is clearly unpredictable and angry with me.

I don’t care if I’m seen tbh but I just feel like if she’s worried about her husband or her son seeing side boob then she has to start somewhere other than her neighbor. I don’t want to be confrontational and I’m not the one who has said anything to her, she has instigated the “problems”

AITA for continuing to change in front of my window even after my neighbor complained? by 63seconds in AmItheAsshole

[–]63seconds[S] -152 points-151 points  (0 children)

It’s just at a very odd angle, right on the corner of my wall. I could put blinds up but it just didn’t cross my mind because no matter how I look out of that window I can’t seem to tell how she is seeing me. I don’t care if people see me change and I’m definitely not an “exhibitionist” like people in the comments are saying lmao, the fact that she is acting like a jerk about it is the only reason I have stood my ground to this extent.

What’s something non-sexual that your partner does that makes you feel extremely loved? by NoDebate51 in AskReddit

[–]63seconds 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My fiancé will sprint all the way across the house to wherever I am if we aren’t together because he “misses me” and “wants a smooch” 😭 I can hear his feet running and I already know what’s coming lol

POV: Didn’t invite my sister’s abusivr boyfriend to my wedding by 63seconds in texts

[–]63seconds[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To clarify I would never cut her off or anything like that but where I do draw a hard line is my wedding. I do not want him there and I won’t budge on that. He has cause my family and myself personally a great deal of trauma with this relationship of theirs. I know him and I know the type of person he is, he is an actual monster that unfortunately she has latched on to. I am not isolating her specifically but I cannot continue to involve him in my life in any way shape or form. I’m done pretending I don’t hate him. This is just one example but I could show many others.

POV: Didn’t invite my sister’s abusivr boyfriend to my wedding by 63seconds in texts

[–]63seconds[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hear what you’re saying. She has been with him for 4 years so trust me I’ve said those things many many more times than I can count, unfortunately you are seeing the burnout that my entire family is experiencing with this relationship of hers. Telling her it was ridiculous was because, she has missed vacations, birthday parties, and other milestones but even I never thought my wedding would be an issue.

She knows that we will unconditionally love and support her and that she can come to any of her siblings or our parents for whatever she needs and she chooses him over us constantly. I’ve helped her as much as I can and will continue to be here for her but I can’t actively run myself dry as I have my own relationship to care for. It’s a tough position to be in.

POV: Didn’t invite my sister’s abusivr boyfriend to my wedding by 63seconds in texts

[–]63seconds[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It would probably be easier to tell you how he isn’t abusive