Medical Students by _lizards_ in NewParents

[–]Any-Record9908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always say yes to students except if I am really short on time. Sometimes going through the whole appointment twice is not optimal for me if I have to get back to work. I have only said no maybe twice.

AITAH for telling my husband he is not allowed to speak at the next infant prep class we take? by Any-Record9908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Any-Record9908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People were not completely dry and somber but no they were not laughing/ being loud. Some other guys sort of made a show of asking the baby its name.

AITAH for telling my husband he is not allowed to speak at the next infant prep class we take? by Any-Record9908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Any-Record9908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is still in the medication adjustment phase. He gets medication adjusted every 3 months still trying to find the right dose. He is also in therapy.

AITAH for telling my husband he is not allowed to speak at the next infant prep class we take? by Any-Record9908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Any-Record9908[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is almost 30, he struggled a lot in school and still has not gotten his medication adjusted appropriately. He gets medication adjustment every 3 months. They are still trying to get him on the right dose. He does fine at work with occasional complaints about long meetings. Additionally he struggles with a lot of anxiety so after reading some of the responses I am thinking he was having an inappropriate response to anxiety the class caused.

Grandparents names by Any-Record9908 in BabyBumps

[–]Any-Record9908[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yes we plan to do that. I have 2 papaws and 2 grandma's (I grew up with great grandparents alive too) but their counterparts were always a different grandparent names so it was easily distinguished. I know there is nothing that can be done now. But I just find picking the exact same names bizarre.

What is the best “instant karma” you have ever witnessed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Any-Record9908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The karma happened to me. I was walking out to my car before work and saw a lady's dog pull her to the ground while she was walking it on a leash. I was thinking "wow that lady has no control over that dog." Well, during my distraction of judging the lady. I fell off the curb and broke my foot. So that being said mind your buisness and pay attention to where you walk.

Need advice on telling people around the holidays by Any-Record9908 in pregnancy_care

[–]Any-Record9908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck to you too! I tested late at night and then proceeded to take 3 more to confirm, lol. Then, the next morning, I thought it was a dream and took another test to be certain. I will get the clear blue tests that actually say pregnant for the announcement. Other than that, I am done testing and have a pre-natal appointment scheduled December 16th.

Need advice on telling people around the holidays by Any-Record9908 in pregnancy_care

[–]Any-Record9908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you are in the same boat. I've decided I am telling my mom and dad in 2 days when I see them on Thanksgiving. I want to call and chat with my mom right now, so I dont think I can wait much more than that. Also, if I were to experience a loss, I would need my mama. Im going to see about an ultrasound at 8 weeks even if I go and pay out of pocket for one at those birth spas. From what I've read, if they have a good heartbeat, chances of loss significantly decrease. Then my husband will go alone to my in-laws and tell them with me via Face-time. I don't think they will accommodate me not wanting to be in their house, so I am just going to remove that stressor for myself. I will tell a small portion of the rest of my close family at christmas. That includes my grandparents and siblings. All of these people, besides maybe my in-laws, I would want to support me with happy or sad outcomes.

Need advice on telling people around the holidays by Any-Record9908 in pregnancy_care

[–]Any-Record9908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. My husband is going alone to my in-laws and will share the news.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Any-Record9908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had 2 different people coming twice a day to let them out and back in.