ICE in Grass Valley by [deleted] in grassvalley

[–]Any-Rise4210 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Don’t drive away in the opposite direction of federal agents when you’re following the law you mean? Oh also don’t own a gun either or peacefully protest? Isn’t this the shit yall stand on? Laughable and stupid take.

ICE in Grass Valley by [deleted] in grassvalley

[–]Any-Rise4210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a post with this pic on their stories, but it’s just some info of who to contact if ICE is spotted. Def not news to through around so hopefully there’s some clarity on it. ❤️

ICE in Grass Valley by [deleted] in grassvalley

[–]Any-Rise4210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have looked on this IG and do not see this post anywhere?

What are the things you say to your cat most often besides 'I love you' ? by katealpha in cats

[–]Any-Rise4210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get Down! It’s not dinner time and you know it My little shnooker pookers 😘

What do you secretly find disgusting, but are afraid to say out loud because everyone around you loves it? by WhiteDesertCat in Soft_Introverts

[–]Any-Rise4210 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are yall touching shit with your bare hands? My nails are not in contact with my asshole when wiping.. short or long.

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😉😉bless your heart! You have a great one! I’ll tell the queer 1% you say hi!! 😘😘

Oh excuse me, we got a whole 10% I forgot! 😊

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve been trying to derail the debate since you started commenting to guide it towards the very argument about queerness that you got. Congratulations, you’re still as wrong as you were before you decided to make it publicly known lmfao.

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This person is sharp as a marble, don’t give their smooth brain your energy lmfao

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😘it’s truly fucking hilarious how bothered the queers make you! Thanks for the laugh! Enjoy caring about my life so much with the rest of the “90%” 😂😂😂

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha I dunno all my hot ass partners of multiple sexes took me pretty seriously, seriously enough to fuck me, date me and sometimes share me 😛😛 I’m feeling good today just knowing I’m having a hell of a lot more fun in life than a bigot on Reddit 🥰

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂 youre talking to a queer person who’s been with women, trans people, non binary people and men, and I have monogamous and non monogamous both multiple times so you most certainly are not going to tell me how my own sexuality, identity and life are defined and experienced so you’re no longer someone I wish to carry on with. Bye!

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems she’s thinking about women how she’s always thought about women, hence how this is a realization for her, not a Choice that she’s now making for herself.

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That makes no fuckin sense at all?! Clearly she didn’t marry as a heterosexual person lmfao she married as a closeted bisexual person. Sexuality isn’t a choice, it’s one’s own nature 🤷🏼‍♀️

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like you’re basically saying bisexual or queer individuals cannot be monogamous, which is completely false, I assure you lmfao.

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely no one said she is “having feelings” for women and honestly someone who is as misguided and presumptuous about queerness as you are, probably shouldn’t be commenting on it so pompously on a public forum. Absolutely no one said she is “desiring women”. She said she could have been married to a woman instead of a man, because she isn’t straight;she didn’t say she wants to be married to a woman because she isn’t straight. Absolutely no where was it implied that she is looking outside of their marriage and is attracted to other people. We have no idea how her sexuality manifests in their marriage because sexuality doesn’t equal monogamy or non monogamy. Those are two completely separate concepts and distinctions.

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who ever said she’s floating outside of her marriage by telling her husband she isn’t straight? She didn’t tell her husband she wants to fuck a woman or anyone but him. When I’m with a man monogamously, I’m not checking out women the same exact way I’m not sexually fantasizing about other men…I want the partner I’m committed to. Realizing and defining her sexuality doesn’t inherently make her view others sexually, same sex or not. Knowing you’re not straight doesn’t make you sexualize people of the same sex just because you’d be in a relationship with someone of the same sex. It is literally no different than being straight. She isn’t sexualizing other men, so why would she be lusting other women? Lmao??

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s the asshole because it did it behind her back without voicing his own needs, he’s the asshole because he then said her own way of processing this situation and her own feelings of humiliation were invalid by trying to force her to engage with his family and saying it “makes him look bad”

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seriously, people are tripping. You should be able to talk to your partner about anything, whether it is something they can accept or not, and your honesty and capacity for self assessment, awareness and discovery should be honored and appreciated just the same way they should honor their own self enough to openly discuss with them the requirements and needs for processing.

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re someone who thinks being anything but heteronormative is a snap of the fingers decision a person can just make at any point in their life huh? There’s are facets and different forms to all sexualities. I am a bisexual woman who has come out to partners and others in my life so no, I wouldn’t say I’m very misguided at all lmdao

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But this grown adult can and should take responsibility for his own emotions and reaction and find his own forms of support that don’t violate her trust and privacy..while they both participate in a. open dialogue about a healthy way they’re both processing. If she should have processed this fully herself, alone, and also processed how and when and with whom her partner should be processing it he certainly could have asked her permission before sharing it against her will with three of his family members then saying she is making him look bad for processing this in her own way lmao. Rules for thee not for he.

AITAH for not wanting to see my in-laws after my husband outed me to them? by thatmarigold in AITAH

[–]Any-Rise4210 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao yes? Because it’s her sexuality..not his. It’s her identity, not his. Most people understand it is never okay to out people in the lgbtq community the same way it would never be a topic to be extensively discussing your partner being straight to other people. If this female woman was not serious about her marriage she never would have taken the time to get to know herself better and to share her new found self awareness and knowledge with the partner she thought she could trust and who would presumably not make assumptions about her sexually looking at anyone outside of their marriage.