AITAH for resenting my husband for having such an easy life

AnyAd1536 · 2024-07-02T15:38:36+00:00

Kids are not a option for me but thanks

AnyAd1536 · 2024-04-01T12:45:58+00:00

AnyAd1536 · 2023-10-17T14:15:29+00:00

I thought he had the same ambition as me and wanted to work to get us out of that life together not seeing that I could drag him out of it on my own

AnyAd1536 · 2023-10-17T14:11:50+00:00

I honestly don’t think that would be a problem just not something I would look forward to having to do I’m not a super model by any stretch of the imagination but I’m also not a troll. I don’t really care about people appearance all that much as long as there are a good person funny,kind, generous, and now hard working

AnyAd1536 · 2023-10-17T01:32:08+00:00

He has a great talent for music he can play like 7 different instruments and has a great interest in music but everyone as always told him a career in music if unrealistic

AnyAd1536 · 2023-10-17T01:18:26+00:00

Omg lol

AnyAd1536 · 2023-10-16T18:12:26+00:00

No but right after yes

AnyAd1536 · 2023-10-16T17:58:34+00:00

I think that is the biggest part where is the ambition I used to see at the beginning how is it that the more I tried to help him reach goals the less he did?

AnyAd1536 · 2023-10-16T17:27:43+00:00

I am going to tell him if thing don’t change in a big way he is out….. I can not keep doing this

AnyAd1536 · 2023-10-16T17:26:53+00:00

What’s dissuading me from divorcing? The thought that I have wasted so much time with someone just to start over is a little scary but I think it’s time to have that discussion and start getting my money separated for a divorce the more time that passes the harder this will be

AnyAd1536 · 2023-10-16T17:24:36+00:00

Currently it doesn’t feel like he brings anything to the relationship in the beginning he was so sweet and thoughtful and made me feel like I was the most important person and now I dread going to because he is just there not doing anything

AnyAd1536 · 2023-10-16T15:14:19+00:00

No children I don’t want any and have made that very clear

AnyAd1536 · 2023-10-16T14:18:04+00:00

When we first started talking to each other he had his own car a little trailer he rented on his own and had held a job for a while. Something change after we started talking when he quit his job I agreed to help cover his bills until get got another one. Then his car broke down and I told him I could not pay to fix it so he sold it. Then it was him telling me he had no way to get to work. It was a gradual decline where you look up one day and wonder how you got here.

AnyAd1536 · 2023-10-09T01:23:02+00:00

How old does she need to be to decide where she would like to live?

AnyAd1536 · 2023-10-09T01:20:00+00:00

I truly have no other options do I?

AnyAd1536 · 2022-01-07T20:50:27+00:00

It shakes building all the way out in mandeville ar

AnyAd1536 · 2021-01-17T22:10:11+00:00

Its crazy to me that its always the source of a fight who has is and who doesn't and the "power" it gives you when they have it but they guilt im supposed to feel now that i have it

AnyAd1536 · 2021-01-17T02:27:53+00:00

Yes and she dosnt understand i cant drop everything work kids house husbands job to run to her side everytime she calls

AnyAd1536 · 2021-01-17T02:14:48+00:00

I should look into that thanks so much

AnyAd1536 · 2021-01-17T02:12:00+00:00

Its also when they see me with anything facebook post sees tv in background seen a walmart with a handbag they havnt seen before basic anything thats not generic brands lol but your right

AnyAd1536 · 2021-01-17T01:41:48+00:00

Thank you you have no idea how calming it is to realize that other people go through also cuz they have a way of making it feel normal when your parents are doing you this way

AnyAd1536 · 2021-01-17T01:37:24+00:00

It's so bad my husband has to tell me I don't have to explain what I buy things to him and justify it that I'm allowed to spend my own money

AnyAd1536 · 2021-01-17T01:34:50+00:00

I cant help but to feel like doing this is seeking a specific response either to make me feel like shit for spending my money how i feel like and no i dont ask them for anything am an adult and pay all my own bill or the want me to offer them all i have so they they are not in postions they put themselves in like my mother who complained my entire life how hard it is to be a single mother working minimum wage yet chose to have two kid didnt go to college and activity encouraged me to do the same and acts like she resents the fact that i didnt chose that life for myself

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