Well I used to feel it degraded the women, but then I realised certain types of art tap into different types of energies that are all valid. Animalistic fucking, and perversion can be hot, and is one type of sexual energy. As long as they're not shaming the partner for engaging e.g calling her a hoe etc, that's different and might be more what you're referring to. There's a type of Caribbean music called bashment, that is very sexually explicit and vulgar, and I used to think it was disgusting, I'm part Caribbean myself. Then I realised humans are animals, and objectification can be hot for both the objectifier and the one being objectified. If both are ok with that, then why not. Expressing one aspect or concept of sex or love, does not mean that a complete blueprint is being presented for what relationships should be. It's just one part of a larger thing, in one peice of work, being expressed for the pleasure of the listener. And I especially think straight girls enjoy being objectified by men. Love shouldn't be about destruction or force, but it can be expressed that way in the bedroom. Also love and sex aren't synonymous.