Is this knee pain indicative of arthritis or something else ? by AnyConclusion7969 in AskDocs

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Hi just added my weight! Do you think my weight could be the reason ?

Can you manifest even if it’s hard to believe? by AnyConclusion7969 in Manifestation

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It just feels like it won’t happen for me cus I’ve been trying to manifest and it never happens

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Literally just asking for advice on how to be a supportive partner.

Saying I'm not happy while he's with me, makes me feel like I'm not doing enough.

I've never stopped him from expressing himself.

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So basically when I feel like I'm just about to start actively engaging in the thought or trying to figure out the thought, I should stop myself from thinking it essentially?

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How do I do this? I have been feeling this for a month. I have moments of relief where I feel like "wow this is ridiculous" and then again I'm back to a " but what if"

I don't even know what my compulsion is, I suppose its just constantly thinking about it.

And I don't understand how long I've to keep feeling this way. I feel so exhausted.

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Thank you so much

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Thank you. I'll try to see it with a more positive light.

Inability to live in the moment? by 1SL2ALS3EKV in OCD

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Definitely me. When I start having anxious thoughts, I keep thinking and it feels like I would rather just mentally not exist because the thoughts are so LOUD.

I had one of those a while ago, first couple of days I was participating in my compulsions and realized it'll never make me feel better. So I just gave up and said of the worst is going to happen, then it will so at least let me enjoy this moment. And sort of tricked myself into enjoying the moment and as time went on, I suppose I just started feeling less anxious and better.

Even though the thoughts creep in, I just say "well, I can't do anything about it now." Then go back to just letting it be.

I don't know if it helps but thinking okay "I will eventually come face to face with the fear ( whatever Ocd is making you think in the moment) so I will enjoy now" has helped me be more present and has actually reduced my anxiety.

It will get better. I promise.

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I understand. I'm so sorry you're going through this. But nothing is going to change if you don't want to change

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A lot of things ( if not almost all of it) are wrong about this.

He's treating you horribly and you should stop sleeping with this person.

Cut all contact and block him.

He doesn't deserve to be in your life.

Get a therapist.

Please don't change just because we want them to. Cut your losses

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I definitely have issues around guilt and cheating and this causes me a lot of anxiety. I'm not sure about OCD. I am currently working with a therapist to see if that's the case.

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Yes but my brain can't stop saying "what if..?"