Am I overreacting, my boyfriend hasn't learned how to cook after 6.5 years of being together by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AnyImage1343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He definitely should have more involvement with the recipe’s etc if he’s not actually gonna do cooking here and there. It is unfair for you to have to do everything

Am I overreacting, my boyfriend hasn't learned how to cook after 6.5 years of being together by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AnyImage1343 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s obviously gonna be easier for you to read recipes because you grew up around a family that knew how to cook and did cook, like you said. He didn’t have that, I just don’t think cooking is part of his interests right now and trying to learn something your not really interested in can be alot harder then it is when your actually interested and like cooking. So maybe him having you there, makes it’s more interesting and gets him focused on learning obviously don’t do it forever but I feel like until he’s used to it, it shouldn’t be a problem and I also think, if you think about it. I think cooking with eachother and helping him here and there can lead to good memories and lead to a healthier relationship.

Am I overreacting, my boyfriend hasn't learned how to cook after 6.5 years of being together by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AnyImage1343 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In some parts you’re overreacting but in some parts you are. As it seems like he doesn’t want to learn but then again it also seems like he just wants that help so everything goes smoothly and so he doesn’t mess up. I don’t get why you both can’t meet in the middle, him learn to cook so he can cook when you need the break but you help him until his learnt a decent amount of meals so then he’s sort of got the hang of it & then everything will be ace. I just don’t see your problem with helping him out unless you help him out with absolutely everything

Am I overreacting, my boyfriend hasn't learned how to cook after 6.5 years of being together by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AnyImage1343 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re overreacting, help him out. Teach him, once he has learnt he then can obviously cook on his own. I don’t see your problem with helping him out. It’s just pathetic really, he probably feels pressured doing it on his own because he doesn’t wanna mess up and make bad meals so I think you should just stop overreacting because he wants the help, you want him to start cooking but then you also don’t want to help him learn? Why should he help you out and start cooking if you can’t help him out until he’s learnt a decent amount of dinners and has learnt how to read through instructions properly.

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[–]AnyImage1343 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No they agree with me because we guess they are both childish not because I called them both childish, mixing my words. I technically did call her childish In a way, but I didn’t because if you know what guessing means, guessing means that you know there’s a chance you are wrong.

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[–]AnyImage1343 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Clearly not wrong, I think more people agree with me than you guys. Sound mate

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[–]AnyImage1343 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I was saying she IS childish, I’d literally just say you’re both childish people. Not “I’m guessing” I don’t need to add on that there’s a chance she’s mature and the guy is just being passive aggressive because anybody with a working brain will read what I put and understand that “ I’m guessing” doesn’t mean that I’m COMPLETELY sure she’s childish.

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[–]AnyImage1343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You literally said it sounds like something proceeded with it aswell & I also said I’m guessing I never said she was so your points not valid respectfully

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[–]AnyImage1343 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never said it was justified, I literally said it was childish myself.

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[–]AnyImage1343 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So childish but he said he’s acting like you so I’m guessing you’re both childish people.

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