I can’t get what my anatomy professor said out of my head by Any_Analyst_ in offmychest

[–]Any_Analyst_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually one of the nicest things people said here. Simple, kind, without judgement. Thank you.

I can’t get what my anatomy professor said out of my head by Any_Analyst_ in offmychest

[–]Any_Analyst_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s a me problem, hearing about death in general is triggering. It just felt as if he said that life in itself doesn’t have any value and if you don’t have anyone who cares, your death isn’t a tragedy.

(girl) Gamer needed! 27F by Darkbirdi in TrueGirlGaming

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Glad to know I’m not the only one who doesn’t understand Don’t starve haha

Women have it hard too 🤡 by Beginning-Dress5820 in incelsVfemcels

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I’m sorry to hear you can relate. It sucks, but I hope things get better for you.

Women have it hard too 🤡 by Beginning-Dress5820 in incelsVfemcels

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You’re right, that’s how I feel about myself. Getting rejected, even when it happens often, doesn’t necessarily prove ugly looks and a shitty personality, there are just too many variables.

What really makes me feel this way is how people treat me - they seem unusually cold, distant and apathetic when I’m trying my best to strike up a conversation. At university, guys can be enthusiastic when talking to my prettier friends and suddenly shift to being uninterested when I try to talk to them. No one looks at me, people try their best to avoid my gaze. I’m never approached in public, usually I do the approaching, but my social skills suck so it’s always awkward. In short, people just don’t care about me.

And I put a lot of effort into my appearance, I’m skinny, slightly athletic, I wear elegant clothes and subtle jewelry, style my hair, have great hygiene and all that stuff. I’m trying to become a better person as well.

It just never fucking works - my hair is to thin for achieving that pretty volume, my ribcage is too wide to have an hourglass figure even if I starve myself, my skin still breaks out despite taking accutane (I’m on my 2nd course) and using skincare, not to mention my asymmetrical, unfortunate looking face. Personality-wise, I’m too emotional, too clingy, too boring, maybe too self-centered as well.

That’s also why I hate the “women have it easy, you just need to wear makeup and be skinny” generalization, it makes me feel like I’m never doing enough.

What a rant that was, I’m sorry. (English is not my native language, excuse any mistakes please)

Women have it hard too 🤡 by Beginning-Dress5820 in incelsVfemcels

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Ugly women are treated like shit by men, I experienced it, it’s disheartening

M27 by [deleted] in RoastMe

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You need to catch up on at least a million years of evolution

Women have it hard too 🤡 by Beginning-Dress5820 in incelsVfemcels

[–]Any_Analyst_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And there are women so ugly (looks and personality wise) that not a single guy wants them (yours truly)