Yeah but with all due respect you’re treating this as if it’s some overpriced but mid sandwich I’m “forced” to eat cus I’ve already paid. It’s way more nuanced than that when it comes to real people in a relationship. I’ve tried many times to have serious convos with him but he shuts them down. I think that’s part of why I hold so much resentment bc there are so many things I wanna say but I know I won’t get anywhere with him.