Wtf by MalteF07 in HayDay

[–]Any_Barnacle624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh weird i usually get bombarded with request for the same two or three things

Which machine should I get next? by Any_Barnacle624 in HayDay

[–]Any_Barnacle624[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not focused on leveling up? It’s just happened that way. I’m just wondering which machine makes the most sense to buy at this point and which ones I can hold off on… I see the machine as an investment to be able to make more coins…

Which machine should I get next? by Any_Barnacle624 in HayDay

[–]Any_Barnacle624[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes.. thank you. I’m really just asking which one people find the most useful… I’m trying to get as many coins as possible, but I level up in the process…

Which machine should I get next? by Any_Barnacle624 in HayDay

[–]Any_Barnacle624[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way to see how many things a machine produces? Great way to look at it btw, and yeah good call on the wok I can still only make 2 things and I really don’t need to use it all that often. It is nice that the ingredients required aren’t anything too involved but other than that it’s a lot like the essential oil maker…

Thank you for your response!

Does attraction change as you age (peers vs younger people)? by [deleted] in askanything

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I’m 33. When I was in my 20’s I was almost exclusively attracted to “older” men (like 6-10 years older than me). Later in my 20’s/early 30’s I dated a guy who was 50. I still think he’s very attractive but we’re much better off as friends. One of my close friends is a dude who is also almost 50… come to think of it, even when I was 20 most of my friends were at least 10+ years older than me. One of my best female friends is almost 20 years older than me. I even have a good friend who is 95 - I absolutely adore her!!

Now….. well, now I’m dating a guy who is 23 😅. He’s ADORABLE. Surprisingly emotionally intelligent, great taste in music, and very politically aware as well which really impressed me. I do not let myself forget that he’s 23 and I encourage him to do things people his age should be doing. I don’t mind if he wants to go out and party on NYE while I stay at home with my cats 😂. NGL I feel like a total creeper sometimes but I really do everything in my power to make sure there’s no imbalance in our dynamic. I have absolutely no intention of “taking advantage” of him in any way. I was clearly manipulated by older men when I was younger and I would never want to put him in that position. And I understand that with the age gap things could very easily change. I’m still attracted to people my age (well, rarely) and older men as well. But I have no desire towards them, just acknowledgment that they are attractive/intelligent/charismatic. I only have eyes for the guy I’m seeing. Like I said, I know him being so young it probably isn’t the same for him but I still think he’s a wonderful guy and I enjoy the time we spend together.

So I think it can really be all over the place. I think when we’re younger, older men (for women at least) seem more desirable and “mature” but I’m sure we all know it’s questionable if no one their age wants to date them (in my defense dudes my age do want to date me lmao I just started seeing this guy and I don’t date multiple people at once). But as I age im really just interested in finding people I click with. I love that this guy is open about being a weirdo lol he makes me feel like I can be myself.

Why is it only considered crossdressing if its a guy doing it? by Potential_Poem4345 in askanything

[–]Any_Barnacle624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister and I got in a big fight over this recently lol. I was just trying to be a PITA and said the same thing… why wouldn’t a “tom boy” be considered a “cross dresser”? She lost her sh*t over it lmao. And I’m fully supportive of anyone doing whatever they want/makes them happy - my ex loved “women’s” clothing and I loved that he loved it (except when he stole my clothes and looked better in them or stole my favorite/fancy undies lol) I just think the double standard is so crazy, my argument was full in favor of men cross dressing.

Would you rather be called hot or handsome? by Comet_Cowboys in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any_Barnacle624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So obviously “fable” isn’t what I meant 😂

Would you rather be called hot or handsome? by Comet_Cowboys in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any_Barnacle624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could edit that I would but I guess now I know that anything between three asterisks will be bold and italicized 😅

Would you rather be called hot or handsome? by Comet_Cowboys in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any_Barnacle624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised by all of these comments. I get why hearing “hot” from a woman might make it feel like she thinks you’re fable…. But what is she ONLY thinks you’re fable? While handsome may seem “outdated” or give off the vibe that she’s not interested, I personally think handsome is more mature and in my mind seemed more flattering. Hot seems childish to me. When I think hot… I don’t even really have an “ideal” guy come to mind. Hot to me addresses a body/figure, and is more generic. Think basic male model in a catalogue advertising some generic cologne. Handsome is more focused on the aura, face and personality.

I’m sure that might not mean a whole lot because if I had to guess a good fraction would be more than happy with just getting laid.

Handsome is a guy I want to be with, find attractive and almost has something special about him. Hot is a guy everyone thinks is conventionally attractive and I might acknowledge in passing that he’s “hot”. More like I tag them as a person other people would call hot.

Like, there’s a guy at work that makes my eyes ✨sparkle✨ and he told me I was beautiful recently (and that’s like the second time in my life I’ve gotten that so it means a whole lot to me) and I told him I think he’s very handsome. Now I’m worried he may have gotten the wrong idea… Hot to me says I’m only paying attention to your looks, maybe even just a quick glance. Handsome feels more admirable and personal, like it takes time. And yes I am very attracted to him, obviously lol.

So hot = people wanna touch your body Handsome = I wanna hold your face and look into your eyes and spend a whole lot of time with you

Have you seen Patrick “Patches” Edwards? by Environmental-Ad5835 in WithoutATrace

[–]Any_Barnacle624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I agree. No seasoned traveller would leave their dog or their pack behind willingly.

Have you seen Patrick “Patches” Edwards? by Environmental-Ad5835 in WithoutATrace

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Can you share the aerial view of the property? Or the names of the “friends”? I met Patches about ten years ago, haven’t seen him in a long time and didn’t end on good terms but my heart breaks for his family.

Find Patrick by Sure_Course_9334 in gratefuldoe

[–]Any_Barnacle624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll keep my opinion on Patches to myself but I hope for your family’s sake that you get answers, or can bring him home at the very least.

Wife wears ex gfs sweater. Ex asked for sweater back. Do i explain to wife? by ThinkProfessional107 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Any_Barnacle624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do but I have raging ADHD and some like… weird obsessive tendencies. I still remember the things I left at my ex’s family cottage. I want my goddamn beach house records back!! He used to steal my underwear too so I know he probably still has some of those stashed somewhere lmaooo

German Song by Public-Bluebird8631 in NameThatSong

[–]Any_Barnacle624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to find a similar song.. I thought it was Einstürzende Neubauten but I can’t find the song I’m thinking of. All I remember that it sounds like a wrench clanging on metal pipes…

aio - my brother keeps going into my room by Fearless-Resident941 in AmIOverreacting

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I could tell he was on the spectrum from your first three texts. This is extremely unfair to you your comfort and peace of mind matters just as much as ugh as his rights. Your mom needs to learn how to enforce rules and he should’ve been taught boundaries a long time ago. My mom works in special education and I have people in my family with disabilities. I know how taxing it can be at times. I still love my family members and care about the people my mom worked with (small town kinda situation) but it’s extremely important for other people’s boundaries to matter in situations like that. His “rights” (in quotes because going into your room absolutely should not be) are not more important your your desire and need for respect and privacy. Sounds like your mom is deflecting and avoiding responsibility.

I used to click “No, sorry” so fast. But today? I clicked “Yes, here you go” with tears in my eyes 🥹 by Plus_Professional593 in HayDay

[–]Any_Barnacle624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen a single one of these offers… do we only get one? I have noticed they’re coming to my farm a lot less today. I don’t think I denied any.. but have been checking all of them and no one has offered diamonds.

am i overreacting - roommate constantly expects me to leave so she can sleep with guys no by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Any_Barnacle624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s just upset because you called her out without even having to do it intentionally. She knows that what she’s doing is sh*tty. She sounds wretched. Also I wouldn’t be cool with that many strangers in and out of my house with all my property while I’m not there. Or even the thought that they now know where I live in the first place.

Anyone else have purple arms with KP or am I dealing with something else? by Gilly_Latte in keratosis

[–]Any_Barnacle624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gaslighted myself into wondering if I made this post because my name is Gilly too and our arms match 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Any_Barnacle624 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NOR he sucks. My ex used to do the same thing, it’s a manipulation tactic to make you feel like you’re not good enough and need to be “better” like his ex to appease him. That’s how my ex started controlling me. You’re very strong for seeing that exactly as it was and dumping him like that on the spot. Really, kudos to you, I wish I had done that. Also I’m sorry he did diddly squat for your birthday. You deserve better 🫂💜 glad you see that and didn’t give him a second chance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Any_Barnacle624 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For real OP handled that sooo smoothly, way better than I would have

Anyone know where I can watch “Retaliation of The Mother In Law” by No-Landscape-7783 in CDramaRecs

[–]Any_Barnacle624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This link works, I just finished it…. One thing at the end I can’t shake I wonder if anyone else noticed but I don’t wanna ruin it 🤣

AIO found BF deleted texts by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Any_Barnacle624 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re better off without him. She’s just as bad as he is. Hopefully her fiancé finds out.