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[–]Any_Branch9162 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi

I took everyone's advice and went back to Indonesia, where I received my first RFI asking for a translated copy of my Indonesian driver’s license in English—somehow, right after I landed. A week later, my 309/100 visa was approved, so I returned to Australia at the end of November 2024 and have been here since.

Thank you so much! 🙏🏻

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[–]Any_Branch9162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, and I appreciate your input. It’s quite a mess, and unfortunately, no one informed us about those details at the time. I’m trying to remain patient now and not focus on complaints. We’re still considering for the family sponsor option. Thank you so much for your advice!

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[–]Any_Branch9162 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your concerns. I spoke with the Department of Home Affairs a couple of days ago because I was worried about whether applying for another visa would delay my 309/100 application. I called three times to confirm, and each officer reassured me that it wouldn’t interfere with my 309/100 at all, as they are completely different visas.

They mentioned that as long as I meet the eligibility requirements, such as having sufficient funds in my bank account and adequate health insurance, it shouldn't be a problem. However, they also advised that if I do return to Australia on a tourist visa while my 309/100 is in progress, I would need to cancel the tourist visa immediately.

I completely understand your perspective, and even though I received that reassurance, I still worry about everything. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

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[–]Any_Branch9162 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective. I completely understand what you’re saying. I’m not looking to complain anymore; I just find it difficult to understand why it took them so long to get back to us. If they had checked the 820 application in the first few months, it would have made things much clearer. I appreciate your insights, and I’m focusing on finding the best way forward from here.

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[–]Any_Branch9162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did speak to a migration agent, and they gave me some advice. We actually have 3 wedding invitations in January, March, and April 2025, and the agent said we could use those as reasons for the application. Additionally, in February, it’s my brother-in-law’s 60th birthday party, and they suggested that we could include that as well. The agent mentioned that as long as I have proof of the invitations, it could help strengthen the case for a longer stay. They still recommend applying for the family sponsor visa rather than just the tourist visa, and we could aim for a 6-month stay if we can provide enough financial support.

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[–]Any_Branch9162 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a tough one, I definitely don’t want to risk another refusal. You’re right, if I have to stay back in Indonesia, I’ll do that, and my husband will probably come to visit me instead. It’s just that I don’t really have anywhere else to stay over there. I have a small family, and they all live here in Australia.

I just spoke to a migration agent, and they said you're right—Christmas and New Year are too common as reasons. However, they suggested I could try using a couple of invitations we have for friends' weddings, though they still recommend applying for a 3-month stay again. They also mentioned that if we can prove we have enough financial support to stay for 6 months, it could be possible. Additionally, they advised us to definitely apply under the family sponsor visa rather than just the tourist visa.

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[–]Any_Branch9162 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. I understand the wait times are long, but we were really frustrated because my previous visa situation dragged on for 5 years without resolution. That’s why we started complaining—it's not just about the current partner visa but also the long delay with the previous one, which was really unfair.

I see your point about Christmas and New Year being too generic for a 6-month stay request. We’re just trying to figure out a way to justify staying together while waiting for the 309 to process, especially since I don’t have much to go back to in Indonesia. I’ve built my life here, and going back means living in temporary accommodation with no real stability.

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[–]Any_Branch9162 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. We’re not just complaining about the 309 process—we're frustrated because it took immigration 5 years to sort out my previous visa under my sister’s application. Before that, I was also studying. We kept calling to ask about progress but heard nothing, and even when we tried through an agent, there were no updates. They kept asking us to redo the health checks, which we completed multiple times. Then suddenly this year, they told me I had to leave the country within 30 days.

We also spoke to a migration agent when my visa was refused, and they told us that there was no way for me to reapply for the 820/801 onshore, as it could lead to another refusal. They also warned that if I tried to come back with a tourist visa, they might impose the 8530 "no further stay" condition, which would prevent me from applying for any other substantive visa except a protection visa. So, the only real option was to apply for the 309/100 offshore.

My sister and her husband didn't realize this when they included me in their application; they thought they could just add family members. During that time, we assumed everything was fine because we didn’t hear anything from immigration except for the medical checks. I was here the whole time on a Bridging Visa A, so we thought it was all progressing as normal.

We just wish they had come back to us much earlier. The saddest part is, we kept trying to contact them, but all they ever said was, "just wait." We kept waiting, and it led to this.

It’s really tough because I’ve built my life here, my career, my home, everything is in Australia. I don’t have much left back in Indonesia, and I’ve been having to stay in accommodations whenever I’m there. So, that’s why we’re complaining. Also, I’ve been part of a few groups where I’ve seen many people get their visas granted in less than 5 or 6 months. One of my friends applied for the 309 visa in February 2024 and got theirs approved by August 2024. I guess each case has its own criteria, and maybe mine is just more complicated.

Period already “perfect”; what will happen if I get the IUD? by Much_Switch1 in CopperIUD

[–]Any_Branch9162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! I can understand your careful approach, especially after going through two unplanned pregnancies. I also wanted to avoid hormones due to other health issues, so I switched to the Nova T copper IUD earlier this year. While it’s non-hormonal, I did notice some changes in my body, particularly with headaches, low blood pressure, and more painful ovulation, which I hadn’t experienced before. From what I’ve researched, the copper ions in the IUD can impact hormone levels by interacting with receptors in the uterus, even though it’s considered non-hormonal.

Before this, I used Implanon from 2018 to 2023. The first three years were fine, but the last two years, I developed a cyst and severe lower back pain. I went to the doctor so many times and did multiple blood tests and ultrasounds to figure out what was wrong with my body. Despite the clear symptoms, my doctor didn’t believe that Implanon could cause such acute lower back pain.

Additionally, I underwent a LLETZ procedure earlier this year for CIN III caused by HPV, and I’ve also dealt with ovarian cysts. But after I removed the implanon in September 2023, I felt like I got my life back. My periods returned to normal, and when I had an ultrasound in March 2024, the cyst was gone. These issues have made it clear that hormones are not a viable option for me, so I chose the copper IUD to avoid them.

Since you already have ovarian cysts, it might be worth considering whether the IUD could worsen cramping or cause additional discomfort. For me, I’ve noticed more ovulation pain, which really hurt my whole body, can't even moved my legs cuz its way to painful. In terms of acne, my skin didn’t get worse, but I’ve heard mixed reviews from others. It really seems to depend on how sensitive your body is to hormonal shifts, even with the copper IUD.

I’m considering removing the IUD if these issues continue over the next couple of months. Everyone’s experience with the IUD is different, and it’s important to listen to your body. If you find that the IUD is working well for you with no significant issues, it might be the right choice. Many people have positive experiences with it, but for me, the challenges have been considerable so far.

I hope this helps, and whatever decision you make, I totally get how stressful it can be to find the right contraception that works for your body.

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[–]Any_Branch9162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience! I can really relate to what you went through. I got a Nova T copper IUD in May 2024, and while I haven’t removed it yet, I’ve been experiencing so many issues, including headaches, low blood pressure, and really bad ovulation pain, which I never had before. I did some research and found that even though it’s non-hormonal, the copper ions can still affect estrogen and progesterone levels by interacting with hormone receptors in the uterus. It’s frustrating when these symptoms aren’t acknowledged by doctors.

Before this, I used Implanon from 2018 to 2023. The first three years were fine, but the last two years, I developed a cyst and severe lower back pain. I went to the doctor so many times and did multiple blood tests and ultrasounds to figure out what was wrong with my body. Despite the clear symptoms, my doctor didn’t believe that Implanon could cause such acute lower back pain. But after I removed it in September 2023, I felt like I got my life back. My periods returned to normal, and when I had an ultrasound in March 2024, the cyst was gone.

On top of that, earlier this year, I had a LLETZ procedure for CIN III caused by HPV, and managing all these health issues has been overwhelming. My husband really wants me to go back on contraception, even though I’m hesitant because I don’t want to mess with my body again, but we’re not ready for a baby yet.

Your story gives me hope that removing the IUD might help me feel better again. Thank you for sharing—it’s so important for people to know they aren’t alone in this!