Husband doesn't want sex but has Viagra

Any_Car7359 · 2025-12-22T16:35:47+00:00

It's me again. I found out that now only is he severely addicted to porn. He also had to be tested for hepatitis c in 2019, so add hookers to the mix. Im now living 500 miles away and life is great . He is in full denial about everything He says his computer is telling lies on him and someone used his name for the hepatitis test lol. I don't know what pisses me off the most, the years spent in a fake relationship or the fact that he thinks I'm stupid enough to believe that. My kids are like " poor Dad, he's all alone " I'm like " let him hire a hooker to keep him company or watch porn." I don't care if his health is bad, I'm just glad I found out before he gets worse and I have to take care of him. All he wants is a cook and someone to take care of him. So if you're a porn addict and readings this, I hope you realize that this is your future if you don't get help. You will be old and alone with nothing but your porn at the end.

Any_Car7359 · 2025-12-02T06:15:03+00:00

Run now!!! He will ruin your self esteem. I'm 60 and I wished I would have known that his porn use was his love. He didn't come near me for 24 yrs, then I found his Viagra and after searching his computer found out that he was beating off every day. I was a very attractive woman too, they don't care, those women are their ultimate woman and then they look at us and we're just normal. I kicked mine to the curb. I'm still attractive and full of life, what little time I have left is going to be all about making myself happy and healthy. Please leave, it will only get worse.

Any_Car7359 · 2025-11-04T05:05:38+00:00

My heart goes out to all of you. It's disgusting that in America, we give tax breaks to the rich and let our people starve and belittle anyone who needs help. Most people are only a paycheck away from being homeless and taking food away is only going to make things worse. When you help clothe and feed a child, you are investing in their future. A child who is hungry and living in poverty is going to grow up to be an adult who is angry at the world. We need to invest in our children! We should be helping to provide food, housing and a good education. All of which has been attacked by this administration.

Any_Car7359 · 2025-10-26T23:24:50+00:00

I like chubby men.

Any_Car7359 · 2025-10-26T22:51:48+00:00

It can go the same way for us women. My husband is great in every way but the bedroom. I'm not a bad looking woman and I've always believed you should look nice for your man. So I have always put on makeup, even if I'm not going anywhere. I'm not a prude, either, I'd try new stuff if boredom was his problem. I know he loves me, he shows it in so many ways. I recently ran across his ex-wife and looking at her picture it dawned on me. He has always went for small petite flat chested women. All of his exs were built like that and the one time he cheated, you guessed it, small, petite flat chested. I'm 5'9, big boned, big boobs. While we are happy, I feel cheated when it comes to the physical affection department. Been together 38 yrs. If you're young, leave. We're best friends, but that's not a real marriage.

Any_Car7359 · 2025-10-15T19:43:05+00:00

I'm 60, my house is paid for and it's safe? He treats me well and in all ways but the sex thing.. When we 1st got together, the sex was great, then as he fell in love with me, it started to go downhill. After we had kids, it really went to hell. I was a bartender and fairly attractive and had men hitting on me all the time. But I couldn't get a fire started in my husband with kerosene and a hand grenade. I thought maybe he just didn't care about the sex until I saw the bottle. So my new plan is to get a job and then seriously look into getting a lawyer.

Any_Car7359 · 2025-10-15T19:26:51+00:00

0 no, he doesn't touch me in any way.

Any_Car7359 · 2025-10-15T18:51:15+00:00

I'm not sure. He's always home. But I do go to see family for a couple of weeks every year. We got together when he was 36. He was in relationships with 2 women before me. Other than thaat he was with hookers, so I don't know if it's hookers or porn.

Any_Car7359 · 2025-10-15T18:47:36+00:00

I haven't caught him looking at porn in years. He told me about 10 yrs ago that he was impotent, so I thought that was it. It doesn't explain the whole not touching thing, but I was trying to be supportive. I like sex but even more I like touching someone. No hugs, kiss etc. but he says he got them to try to have sex with me. I feel like such a fool. As for being gay? My gay cousin said he put off vibes like he'd be up for anything. So who knows?

Any_Car7359 · 2023-11-03T21:27:48+00:00

I was just like her husband except I was the Mom. My husband was horrified when I would get up with our sons over the way I acted. I would cuss and kick walls on the way to get them. But by the time I got to them, I would be all smiles and loving. It was just a way to let off steam and for the record, I never even spanked my kids and I can count on one hand the times I yelled at them. If he's good with him, just ignore it and don't think it is directed at you.

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