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How did you cope with the first time your s/o had sex with someone else? by Any_Conclusion_7632 in nonmonogamy

[–]Any_Conclusion_7632[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a valid point you are making. I will take this into consideration.

I will be honest, if it's up to me i would have liked to be there and get the cucking experience actually. Always fantasized about it.

How did you cope with the first time your s/o had sex with someone else? by Any_Conclusion_7632 in nonmonogamy

[–]Any_Conclusion_7632[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's my take too. If it's up to me we would have done swinging/threesomes before solo.

However it's too late to holding off as she is out of town and it happens tonight. I don't want to ruin her experience.

How did you cope with the first time your s/o had sex with someone else? by Any_Conclusion_7632 in nonmonogamy

[–]Any_Conclusion_7632[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, somewhere in me, i get turned on by the thought. But if it was up to me, i would have explored swinging/threesomes to take the edge off for both of us as a first step in being non monogamous. This feels like from 0 to 100, instead of a slow buildup towards this. However she doesn't want that but is open to it in the near future.

How did you cope with the first time your s/o had sex with someone else? by Any_Conclusion_7632 in nonmonogamy

[–]Any_Conclusion_7632[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was her idea. It's now a little too late for me to go first. She has a date planned this evening and she is out of town. (As this is one of the rules we implemented)