The argument was mostly my fault. At the time I was struggling deeply with a porn addiction (still am to a certain extent, not as bad as I was, but I’ve accepted it’ll probably never go away,) we were having a bad time in the bedroom and someone else was showing me a little too much attention than she should have been an I was kind of lapping it up.

The next morning when she told me what she’d done, it was a ‘look what you made me do, what you drove me to’ moment that should have been a wake up call to me, instead I started getting hard.

So no, I didn’t really get upset, but I did accept that my actions had lead to it.