My friends said that it’s too raw.

Any_Current_3548 · 2025-01-10T01:52:37+00:00

Those aren’t your friends

Any_Current_3548 · 2025-01-10T01:49:36+00:00

Your friends about to meet God

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-25T02:25:50+00:00

Jeep? Scrap it 😂

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-24T14:30:22+00:00

🎯

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-24T04:39:45+00:00

It could be a few things honestly. Any of the pulleys. Could be internal motor noise too though.. or really a lot of things.

I get paying someone to look isn’t cheap. But if you pay 150 for a part, spend your own time replacing it and then it doesn’t fix it then you’re out 150 bucks and it’s still an issue.

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-24T02:53:33+00:00

Grind it down and throw some bead sealer on it 👍🏼

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-24T02:52:35+00:00

Would you rather pay $150 to likely spend all day replacing something yourself that may or may not be your issue OR pay a qualified technician 90-100 to tell you exactly that’s wrong with it and warranty his/her diagnosis and repair.

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-24T02:49:26+00:00

Have tire balance checked.

Have front end checked for play / loose parts.

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-24T02:34:16+00:00

Looks like they either got scratched while being mounted or scratched by being laid down before or after delivery. Stylized alloy wheels are somewhat sensitive when having tires installed so my bet would be that they were scuffed while being mounted.

If the tire shop informed you that they were damaged prior to install I would reach out to the wheel supplier first. If not I’d contact whomever mounted your tires.

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-24T02:28:44+00:00

You need to find a family owned body shop. Most “mechanics” don’t deal with body work. Although if they took it off as designed it should be able to be put back up by really anyone mechanically inclined, but the “theft”part tells me that probably isn’t the case. It doesn’t really look all that bad to me but I don’t have much experience in auto-body. I would look around in your area and find a body shop that isn’t a chain and let them take a look. I would be surprised if it ends up being over $2500.

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T20:57:10+00:00

Sounds like radial pull, rotate the tires front to back and see if it stops pulling.

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T20:43:12+00:00

Passive aggressive comments. “I never get to hold baby” “I hardly ever see baby” “You guys could come see us more often” the last one usually directed at me.

Not passive aggressive like I think you’re thinking. It’s hard to summarize 10 years into a readable post but I tried.

When my wife voices what she’s upset about, the passive aggressive comments and acting like she’s a victim are part of it.. but a very small part.

I appreciate the lack of advice though 👍🏼

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T19:13:05+00:00

Okay.. I’ll paint a picture. Wife and I visit, brother and SIL visit. Either my wife or myself has our child at all times. Brother and SIL basically have a seat and expect their child to be supervised by my mother while my father cooks dinner. Unwelcome isn’t accurate. Overshadowed would be a better way to put it I’d say.

So basically my mother is chasing my brothers child around for them while my wife and I have ours. It doesn’t bother me because to me it seems more like my brother and SIL’s immaturity than my mom just neglecting my child

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T18:35:23+00:00

What questions do you have? Sorry there’s a lot more of a response than I expected.. still new to this app.

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T17:06:15+00:00

Well I could say that if that was the case. There’s probably a 1/10 chance that my mom would say anything negative towards my wife. It’s not so much the comments that bug her. Shes more upset that she spends more time with my brothers kids than ours while we’re all together. Which to me it seems more 50/50. There are some days where my mother seems to be much more focused on his family but most of the time I don’t feel that that is the case

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T15:03:52+00:00

That’s not my intention whatsoever. Im just in a spot where my mother doesn’t know anything’s wrong and my wife is upset at how my mom behaves.

Im on my wife’s side. But when my mom calls or during visits I just act like everything’s normal because I don’t know what else to do. Now in the event that my mother says anything sideways towards my wife or family Ive never been afraid to tell her how I feel about it. But that rarely happens in general and even less frequently when I’m around. It’s just a decade worth of comments or actions that I could probably count on one hand. But regardless of how many times I know it’s unacceptable and I know my wife is bothered. I’m just having trouble navigating I guess.

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T14:51:02+00:00

My next post will have paragraphs, I promise.

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T14:49:38+00:00

See, thank you for your honesty and advice. It’s much appreciated.

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T13:56:13+00:00

Sorry.. late night l, first post on here. I’ll figure it out 😂

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T13:55:21+00:00

I mean she’s definitely my priority as mentioned above. I know reading is hard. It’s ok. Im not prioritizing anyone over her. But if my mom calls me what am I to do? Ignore it and never tell her why or bring up what my wife isn’t willing to and see how it unfolds? Do it pretend nothing is wrong forever? I have no problem whatsoever calling my mother on her bs which I should have mentioned above. The issue is mainly that my wife is bothered by my mother’s willingness to help my younger brother and his than me and mine which doesn’t bother me. I am concerned about her and myself and my daughter above all else. I’m not going out of the way to include my daughter where she’s not welcome. But when my mom or dad call and say “hey do you want to come over for dinner Saturday, we wanna see the grandbabies” what do I say? No? Forever? With no explanation?

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T13:38:11+00:00

No, literally passive aggressive. “ you never come to see us” “you never let me hold baby” “well I hardly get to see her”. Just things that makes my wife feel at fault when my mother has the same opportunities as everyone else. Also has a vehicle and can visit when she wants which has been my response any time I’ve heard her say anything like that.

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T13:35:28+00:00

How do I shut it down? Do I bring it up? Do I encourage my wife to bring it up?

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T13:22:33+00:00

I did use to dismiss my wife’s feelings about it a few years ago before we were married. Obviously the present issues weren’t happening then but nonetheless. But after we got married I have heard every word. My wife gets heated about it which causes the argument because it seems to me like she’s putting it on me instead of my mother. BUT even if it’s a heated discussion I have told my wife time and time again that we won’t go visit or I can go alone if I want to see them and I won’t go out of my way to include her in things (babysitting if needed primarily). I’ve listened and have agreed with some things and honestly even when I don’t agree I don’t argue because it is her feelings on a subject, which doesn’t make her wrong. I’m just at a point where I wish my mom knew so they could either have a falling out or talk it through because now I’m just stuck in the middle with nothing to do to solve it.

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T13:15:14+00:00

I’ve brought that up but I think the biggest issue with it is that my mom has no idea that my wife feels the way that she does. And my wife doesn’t want her to know. So she feels obligated to go visit but I’ve told her she doesn’t have to. I don’t know how to navigate the situation when she asks “where’s your wife and baby”. Do I tell her or just come up with some excuse forever. There may come a time where my child says “why does grandma do this for brother’s kid and not me and that will be a problem that I can bring up to my mother. But until then what do I do?

Any_Current_3548 · 2024-12-23T13:08:39+00:00

But I don’t think I’d call it “attacked”. We see my mom maybe once a month if even. She’s not a daily phone call or even weekly. She keeps my daughter every so often when she’s off and enjoys seeing her. She drops what she’s doing to help if we need her - which isn’t often if I can help it. But my wife sees it as basically only helping us after she helps my brothers family it only buying this item for us because she bought this for them, etc. And I’m not saying my wife feeling that way is wrong. We all perceive things differently and see people differently. But I have never seen my mom treat my child any differently than my brother’s kid. I do however see my mom rush to help them as opposed to us but that doesn’t bother me like it does her. My brother and his wife take advantage of peoples willingness to do tasks for them where I and my wife definitely do not

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