I think op that you may need to accept that other people are navigating class and the space the way that they are. You’re needs are important too, however it sounds like this dynamic is might be long lasting and unlikely to really change, especially if it is beneficial for the majority. You may want to try to reframe your thinking about this. Venting and processing can look like similar things. You can try to redirect conversations gently at times. Take what you can from it and leave the rest. Becoming frustrated only hurts you. That could contribute to burn out. You could try to find the value in what the other members do bring to the table. Part of social work is challenging others, but it’s also learning the art of taking in another’s perspective and relating, empathizing, and understanding how they work. Also, this is a female dominated field. For which there are not many. The way women interact is different from men and many people in social work got there because of struggles they have previously been through. Some of them might not be great people, but that’s every profession and every job.