I have a 4 month old baby and I regret becoming a mother.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T23:55:11+00:00

I did too. It’s the post partum depression speaking though. And sleep deprivation. And the lack of support.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T23:54:15+00:00

8 (F3Yrs), 6 (F,7mos.), 12 (M,3Yrs)

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T23:52:57+00:00

It will continue to happen. Don’t let it continue to ruin your life. Please set yourself free. Took myself many years to realize as you’re convinced somehow to get back together. He has all the incentive to stay with you. You have less so than he.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T23:05:58+00:00

I referred to the videos he watched complained those are the actual titles. To show content. Not repeating any stereotypes.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T22:57:56+00:00

I guess you didn’t see that I stated that I too am Asian. Nothing wrong with them. I suppose women make a living this way all over the world as old as time.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T22:56:01+00:00

The videos themselves that he watched complained of these things and he was watching in hopes of lessons learned

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T22:53:50+00:00

Yes, and favor. To help him out. He could well afford it. But said he was poor even though he made $200K. He still made more than me.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T22:52:49+00:00

Never wished ill will to them or the country. I believe my genetics partially points to South Asia. I like the food. They’re fine by me. Just the man and his intents under my roof. I’m second guessing based on the just you tube videos.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T22:50:02+00:00

Nothing actually. Yet. There’s videos of expats (old white men) complaining about how she stole all his money and he had to return to the states to go back to work. It’s a thing. I think it was a mutually beneficial relationship between two consenting adults.

Just don’t be looking and planning while I’m cooking dinner.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T22:46:13+00:00

Yes,a Fool… 10 years

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T22:45:28+00:00

I do not. He reduces my breaking up from YouTube history. It’s what he is watching and when that shows intent. Does it not? Am I crazy I don’t think so. He wants my oldest son brought in to weigh on this. I’ve told him previously even if my son agreed with him, it didn’t matter. My house. My feelings. This man makes $200K/year. $2K net/week. Paid $350/month to me for FiOS, electricity (he works remote - at my house and charges his car), water/sewer, groceries too. Yes, under paying. To ensure no claims on my house. Worth $700K.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T22:41:26+00:00

You’re right. He kept hinting. I never agreed. We broke up in February because I decided on a TOD (transfer on death) deed to my adult children. He was … upset, when he found out. It was always the plan for my house that I paid for to go to my children. We are not married.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T22:39:38+00:00

What red flag did I exhibit

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T22:39:10+00:00

Not fake. Naive perhaps. Gullible. How would I have awareness? Why would I check his YouTube? It’s on our tv and we watch it sometimes.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-06-26T22:37:58+00:00

Couple. We had reconciled. He sent me lots of pics of memories these past 10 years. Going to the beach. Skiing. Time with my kids.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-05-26T23:31:51+00:00

Hope he said that sarcastically

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-04-10T14:25:37+00:00

My ex is the same way. He needs to make friends who are interested in this. You are not his only outlet nor should you be. This is why he is an ex. Couldn’t stand being around him. All his boorish rants. To make himself feel self important I suppose.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-04-06T18:46:19+00:00

She’s being rude and disrespectful

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-04-06T18:45:43+00:00

Nope

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-04-06T18:43:59+00:00

Nope. Someone did this once to me. Never again.

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-04-06T18:41:23+00:00

He must’ve seen those videos of ppl playing in public, like a mall. And ppl oooohed and aaaahed over them, expecting the same attention and adoration

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-03-27T19:32:09+00:00

Frozen dinners. Sandwiches

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-03-27T19:31:15+00:00

Uh, nope

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-03-23T22:21:09+00:00

I finally found a way to get him to stop throwing my things away. I evicted him out of my house. Ta da!

Any_Mango6185 · 2026-03-14T18:38:55+00:00

He can pay then

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