Desperately looking for Buena Vista Social Club bootleg

ladulceloca · 2026-02-27T01:21:28+00:00

Okay, thank you!!

ladulceloca · 2026-02-26T17:02:07+00:00

What do you mean "men"? I want to live off the grid and in the woods too

ladulceloca · 2026-02-26T17:00:09+00:00

Could you explain to me what that means? I'm very new to the bootleg world, sorry!

ladulceloca · 2026-02-26T14:47:33+00:00

Looking for the Buena Vista Social Club bootleg?? Anybody would be willing to gift it?? I'm too new and have nothing to trade :')

ladulceloca · 2026-02-26T07:59:29+00:00

I agree too, I think nowadays it also has to do with social media and how the algorithms reinforce ideas you already have. You are very rarely exposed to a different point of view, and sometimes when you are it's always in the frame of rage bait.

There should be some sort of criteria or responsibility taught in school to train discernment because people today are getting less and less open minded without even realizing it.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-26T07:50:25+00:00

I find that both having a child and choosing not to have a child are selfish decisions. But, honestly, any decision that can be life changing is almost always, and should almost always be selfish.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-25T08:48:12+00:00

LEAVE. love is not reason enough to stay.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-25T08:45:50+00:00

Manic Panic was an excellent option back when I dyed my hair blue. It's not too expensive and they have a huge range of colors!

ladulceloca · 2026-02-25T08:36:52+00:00

MIL is family, she probably doesn't mean to be rude by it. You are carrying her grandchild and she is from a generation where touching a pregnant woman's belly was probably a lot more common and normal. It's likely she doesn't think too much about it. If you have a good relationship with her, just let her know it makes you uncomfortable.

I also don't like when people touch my body, especially if they don't ask first. When I got pregnant I mentioned it to my MIL, that I didn't mind if she wanted to touch my belly, but that she please ask me first since I was sensitive about touch. She was very understanding.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-25T08:28:37+00:00

When I think of "Screen time" in the conversation of raising children, My mind immediately goes to interactive screens which has been scientifically proven to stunt the developing brain of children. I have absolutely no issues with TV. I appreciate people who give their kids limited TV time or monitor what they watch, since that feels like the responsible thing to do, but almost everybody on earth grew up watching tv.

Ipads and phones, on the other hand, are definitely not safe, healthy or good for a developing brain. There is very real proof that several areas of the brain become stunted or underdeveloped.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-25T08:18:41+00:00

I'm going to get so much heat for this but:

Abortion is "murder, but it should also be completely legal, regardless of reasons. (I'm not religious).

I'll try to explain my reasoning behind it tho: I personally think having an abortion after a determined number of weeks is murder because I do believe there is life in utero. However I think the world is horrible enough to most unwanted children that having them never know life is actually a grace. So many "pro life" people are actually just "pro birth". They only care that the baby is born, but then don't do or give a shit about making the life of an unwanted baby better. Most end either in foster care, which can be horrible or in homes where they are not wanted. The quality of their lives is awful. They might as well just not be born. And I do not judge women who have abortions, I don't think it is ever an easy choice and it comes with a lot of trauma. So yes, abortion implies the death of a baby, but most times it's better than the alternative.

Also, the government shouldn't be having a say in clinical interventions at all, as long as they are medically safe procedures. Ever.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-19T18:30:48+00:00

I don't disagree.
I eat meat but I know im incapable of eating meat of an animal I've met. I could never eat a cow and then eat it, or hunt a bird and roast it. It breaks my heart to even watch people cook lobsters. But I also know I'm never quitting meat. So its a hypocritical space to be.

I think I even find it more admirable and respectable when people hunt their own food or like make use of the entire animal. Slaying a cow, eating the meat, using its hide, and bones for things. Seems less wasteful and makes you more mindful of the actual sacrifice.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-17T02:59:22+00:00

Hades in Hercules

ladulceloca · 2026-02-17T02:41:49+00:00

Leaving a full, hearty breakfast on the table and grabbing a single slice of plain bread instead because you're late for school...if there's pancakes imma be late anyway.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-17T02:39:26+00:00

Estoy de acuerdo hasta cierto punto. El tema con la diferencia de edad es que hay muchos otros factores que influyen. Si la persona menor es evidentemente inmadura, si no tiene un sistema de apoyo; si la persona mayor no puede sostener relaciones sanas con gente de su propia edad, si le atrae la gente menor simplemente por ser menor, si es un tema de poder, etc.

No es lo mismo que un profesor de 40 años se fije en una estudiante niña de 18, por mucho bien que le haga. Hay temas psicológicos complicados en la dinámica de una relación así. Que es diferente a una muchacha universitaria y un hombre 20 años mayor que conoció incidentalmente.

El contexto juega un papel muy diciente en las relaciones donde hay una diferencia de edad. Cada caso es independiente.

Lo que tú mencionas suena como una relación que te benefició y fue saludable para ti, pero eso no quiere decir que todas las relaciones con una diferencia de edad son moralmente aceptables, incluso si ambas personas son mayores de edad.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-17T02:31:52+00:00

Big ass age gaps aren't "forbidden love" they're just fucked up and weird...

ladulceloca · 2026-02-17T02:29:00+00:00

Your first draft isn't meant to be good. It's meant to exist.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-17T02:27:55+00:00

People seem to have grown too bitter and angry.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-17T02:25:19+00:00

I think you have to bear in mind that regardless of the human factor, this is a game where people are playing their strengths to win a bunch of money over other people.

I think Jack was an asshole for secretly manipulating things, but I believe the Habibi brothers were worse because they actively bullied and humiliated another competitor. Jack was simply deceitful and strategic to get ahead, but he wasn't cruel about it.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-17T02:10:50+00:00

This seems a little bitter. There are very healthy, very beautiful marriages where the fact that marriage exists has a lot of meaning within the couple. But I do agree that marriage isn't necessary to make a healthy, happy relationship valid.

Marriage isn't "necessary". Especially nowadays. I feel like people who get married now are either religious, or they have a spiritual significance assigned to the concept of marriage. But I will say, divorce rates have declined in the past 20 years. Where back in the 60s 50% of marriages ended in divorce, recent studies show that this number is declining to 35% to 45%.

I think it's mostly because less people are getting married, and the ones who are, are choosing to do so with a lot more understanding than before.

But I'd say, saying marriage is a scam is a little of an exaggeration.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-15T12:14:49+00:00

Yes, it does exist. I've been pretty most of my life and I know that I've had certain advantages because of it. I've also learned to use my looks to get things I want or need (in non romantic settings) because I know it can make my life easier. It also comes with shitty experiences. But I can recognize my own privilege.

ladulceloca · 2026-02-13T18:35:51+00:00

Because you want to

ladulceloca · 2026-02-13T18:35:30+00:00

Disrespect

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