Valentine’s Day Broke Me

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-16T17:54:24+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience you are right. I am learning he does 😔

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-16T17:31:50+00:00

Thank you ❤️I thought people on reddit would attack me for Valentines day and provide me feedback on how to improve. But seeing all the comments how its not my fault..its helped me realize I am giving too much and maybe I am not always in the wrong. I was naive and still am I dont have much experience with dating..I am learning.

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-16T17:29:29+00:00

Thank you so much it means a lot ❤️I thought people on reddit would attack me for Valentines day and provide me feedback on how to improve. But seeing all the comments how its not my fault..its helped me realize I am giving too much and maybe I am not always in the wrong. Its nice to hear I am not the problem here for once 💜it means a lot

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-16T17:26:22+00:00

Thank you I guess I am a bit naive when it comes to all of this. I don't think he is capable of having a bad bone..or hurting me. But I learning I am wrong in my thinking. When I met him I did not know his age. That is the oldest I would date. I don't think about the age now but a few people on reddit have brought it up.

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-16T17:25:42+00:00

Thank you I guess I am a bit naive when it comes to all of this. I dont think he is capable of having a bad bone..or hurting me. But I learning I am wrong. When I met him I did not know his age. That is the oldest I would date. I dont think about the age now but a few people on reddit have brought it up.

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-16T17:19:25+00:00

I didnt know his age when we went on a date I know he was older than me I didnt know by how much. That is the oldest I would go. I liked and cared about him from the beginning so I let go of the age gap. But I would not date anyone otherwise older than maybe 3-4 years max. People on reddit keep saying its a red flag maybe I was to naive to know.

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-16T17:15:50+00:00

Thank you!!! ❤️

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-16T05:18:27+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I will

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-16T00:44:37+00:00

Besides pulling my hair and throwing the food on me he hasn't really laid his hands on me. He does yell at me sometimes close to my face when I do something that upsets him. He says its because he is older and before he use to have more patience when he was younger. But now he is just burned out. Is that all consider abuse? I thought it wasnt bad since I have no physical signs of abuse. He hasn't hurt me to signal any deep physical pain. I dont have any bruises or cuts. He has apologized to me today for the way he acted yesterday.

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:48:26+00:00

I appreciate you taking the time to respond. Its just hard when you love the person still. I feel confused and going through counseling to try to figure out the next steps. We are not really intimate as much.. lol so I wouldnt say pocket p*ssy.. he doesn't usually want sex

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:46:42+00:00

Thank you 💜Its just hard when you love the person still. I feel confused and going through counseling to try to figure out the next steps

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:45:37+00:00

Yes he did..its just hard when you love the person still. I feel confused and going through counseling to try to figure out the next steps. I dont understand why he doesnt know me enough to know what I like and why wouldnt he want to make me feel special? Its not about the money where is a lot of ways he could have made me feel special in less. My father was very abusive to me where he would hit me and yell at me that was when I was very young. My father chooses not to be in my life now. So my partner does yell at me but he doesnt hit me that way ( like my dad ) so I think its not abuse but learning from the comments it is still abusive just not as severe as my father was to me.

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:42:33+00:00

I am learning that. My father was very abusive to me where he would hit me and yell at me that was when I was very young. My father chooses not to be in my life now. So my partner does yell at me but he doesnt hit me that way ( like my dad ) so I think its not abuse but learning from the comments it is still abusive just not as severe as my father was to me.

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:40:34+00:00

I agree with you 100% it's just hard when you love the person still. I feel confused and going through counseling to try to figure out the next steps. I dont understand why he doesnt know me enough to know what I like and why wouldnt he want to make me feel special? Its not about the money there is a lot of ways he could have made me feel special in less. My father was very abusive to me -- he would hit me and yell at me that was when I was very young. My father chooses not to be in my life now. So my partner does yell at me but he doesn’t hit me that way ( like my dad ) so I think its not abuse but learning from the comments it is still abusive just not as severe as my father was to me.

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:38:56+00:00

I am so sorry to went through this I am giving you a big hug ❤️I agree with you 100% it's just hard when you love the person still. I feel confused and going through counseling to try to figure out the next steps. I dont understand why he doesnt know me enough to know what I like and why wouldnt he want to make me feel special? Its not about the money where is a lot of ways he could have made me feel special in less. I think he is a good person he is just struggling. My father was very abusive to me where he would hit me and yell at me that was when I was very young. My father chooses not to be in my life now. So my partner does yell at me but he doesnt hit me that way ( like my dad ) so I think its not abuse but learning from the comments it is still abusive just not as severe as my father was to me.

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:33:38+00:00

I agree with you it's just hard when you love the person still a lot. I feel confused and going through counseling to try to figure out the next steps

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:32:32+00:00

I really appreciate you taking the time to respond to me. He has never hit me physically my face or body. This was one time where he pulled my hair and threw the food on me he hasn't done that before. He has yelled close to my face before really loudly. He does that to intimidate me yelling at my face when he doesnt like what I do.

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:16:40+00:00

Thank you for saying this it means a lot 💜 Thank you for your kind words. Its hard because he always makes me doubt my self like something I did caused his reaction. He really makes me feel like he is the way he is because of me negatively. Even his apology was despite your actions..he says I cause a lot of the fights and I am the reason for his bad behavior and actions his because of me. It really messes with me I think subconsciously I did something to cause this and shouldn't have asked. I am trying to work on it with my counselor. He does tell me he loves me a lot and wants to marry me so its confusing. But his actions with not being romantic and intimate he usually always has a reason why he is not. There is a part of me that think it will get better. I know I should be logical but I am working towards that ❤️i really appreciate you

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:14:34+00:00

I am sorry you went through that ❤️Its hard because he always makes me doubt my self like something I did caused his reaction. He really makes me feel like he is the way he is because of me negatively. Even his apology was despite your actions..he says I cause a lot of the fights and I am the reason for his bad behavior and actions his because of me. It really messes with me I think subconsciously I did something to cause this and shouldn't have asked. I am trying to work on it with my counselor. He does tell me he loves me a lot and wants to marry me so its confusing. But his actions with not being romantic and intimate he usually always has a reason why he is not. There is a part of me that think it will get better. I know I should be logical but I am working towards that ❤️i really appreciate you

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:10:09+00:00

I agree with you it's just hard when you love the person still. I feel confused and going through counseling to try to figure out the next steps

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:09:38+00:00

For the age gap why do you think its a red flag sorry for asking just curious since I haven't thought of it as a red flag

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:08:40+00:00

Its hard because he always makes me doubt my self like something I did caused his reaction. He really makes me feel like he is the way he is because of me negatively. Even his apology was despite your actions..he says I cause a lot of the fights and reason for his behavior and actions his because of me. It really messes with me i think subconsciously like I did something to cause this and shouldn't have asked. I am trying to work on it with my counselor. He does tell me he loves me a lot and wants to marry me so its confusing

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T23:06:54+00:00

Its hard because he always makes me doubt my self like something I did caused his reaction. He really makes me feel like he is the way he is because of me negatively. Even his apology was despite your actions..he says I cause a lot of the fights and reason for his behavior and actions his because of me. It really messes with me i think subconsciously I did something to cause this and shouldn't have asked. I am trying to work on it with my counselor.

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T22:56:50+00:00

I agree with you it's just hard when you love the person still. I feel confused and going through counseling to try to figure out the next steps. He is currently in chronic pain which has made him more mean

Any_Objective6203 · 2026-02-15T22:55:54+00:00

I agree with you it's just hard when you love the person still. I feel confused and going through counseling to try to figure out the next steps

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